What do you do to keep the "spark" alive?

Question

In your marriage... what are some things you and your spouse do to try to keep the spark alive?

Answer 1

Oh this is easy!  Sleep together on the same bed mattress in the same bedroom!  Snuggle up together!  Hug each other!  Throw hot passionate tongue kisses with one another! Think like a teenager!  Sleep together and everything will fall in its place!  This has drastically improved our marriage, even more than marriage conseling. Make more money at work!  Keep wife, air conditioned up in the hot summers and warm and cozy in the ice cold winters. Plant a big beautiful rose garden for her in the back yard.  Dress your wife hot and s**y!

Answer 2

Well after 15 years, every five years my husband for our anniversery gets us some s*x toys.  To this day, we long for eachother.   If anyone saw me, they would never in a billion years would think I would do some of the wildest things in bed.  He always says theres never a dull moment not only in bed, but in our lives with 3 kids!  That's how we keep things alive in our relationship.  I always keep him guessing, makes it more interesting!  

Answer 3

I have alot of affairs, that way its always new with my wife.  

Answer 4

I treat her with respect and let her know I love her every day. One thing I like to do is post notes in places that she will look since I leave before she gets up in the morning. In all the notes I tell her I love her. We hug a lot and share our days with each other. We were best friends when we married and we still are today after 21 years together.

Answer 5

We try different activities , different restaurant , we try to go on a week end trip at least once a month . We need our alone time , And we talk . I mean we talk ALOT !!!!!!!!! Even if we dont feel like it sometimes , we always to please our other half !

Answer 6

My husbnad and I are gulity of "boring s*x" while we both get off we aren't trying to make the other one feel good.  Every so often though we'll be laying in bed and he'll start forplay and he'll just concentrate on me for 30 minutes to an hour or I'll just go down on him for no reason.  This helps us.  You can also get s*x games or toys.

Answer 7

Go on NEW kinds of dates. Do stuff you'd never think about doing...like ballroom dancing...fishing trip, etc...whatever is out of the norm for you..

I took my hubby on a surprise date last week to a comedy club to see one of the comedians that he likes....

He had a blast! And I loved seeing him happy.

Always try new and exciting things. It's amazing what can happen.  

Answer 8

My husband and I are in our 40s and we have a "Mom n Dad" day! to where we spend the entire day together alone. We do all sorts of stuff like, go to the movies, we take off to the mountains and go fishing for a day, we go have a few drinks at our neighborhood bar and dance, we lock ourselves in our room and make videos (if you know what I mean)

we make a picnic of cubed cheese and crackers, strawberries n cream, rolled up deli lunch meat and a bottle of wine or champagne with candles and just talk, well... you know! Come on girl use your imagination! make one of your fantasies come true with him. Be open about your preferences in the bedroom, he needs to know because he can't read your mind! Good luck to you.  

Answer 9

Everything is a mystery.  He's never even see me pee.  I'm an enigma.

Answer 10

I show up!  Just kidding... I just do playful things....

Example:  He is into hunting.  He came home and I was wearing those little reindeer antlers, a bulls eye and a smile.  Oh, and his favorite hunting boots (after they we're cleaned, of course!) and I let him HUNT ME for the night...

We've gone camping and I knew nobody was going to be around and greeted him at the camper door wearing his hip holster, his 44 and boots... nothing else.  

Just keep it fun.  Let him come home and find you naked cooking dinner.... if you have kids, when they go to bed... take him outside to the backseat of the car (I park it in the garage so the neighbors don't see).