What do you do when a friend always lets you down?

Question

I have a friend who constantly lets me down when it comes to meeting up. I talk to him about how it upsets me then we fall out about it but always make up. Do you think ignoring him will make him realise how much it upsets me because telling him doesn't work!

Answer 1

well this is trickaayy. I think you should say to him. "RITE LISTEN TO ME. DONT ARGUE WITH ME, LISTEN. YOU DONT MAKE AN EFFORT WITH ME AND I WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND BUT OBVIOUSLY THE FEELING AINT  MUTUAL SO UNLESS YOU CHANGE YOUR WAYS, I CANT GO ON. U CAN GET IN A STRESS WITH ME IF YOU  LIKE BUT THATS TTHE PATH U CHOSE AND I WILL NOT BE LOOKIN FOR YOU IF U EVER MISS ME OKAA!!?!!"

just make him understand that this isnt good okay??

hope it  helps?!! :D

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Answer 2

I would be starting to think about ignoring him on a permanent basis, friend.  

Answer 3

That's not a real friend.

Don't just ignore him.

Abandon him!

Answer 4

You both make plans to meet.  You go to the meeting place at the right time and he never turns up.  It bothers you, quite rightly.  However, it doesn't bother him.  If you don't want to dump him (which I think you should because you are wasting your valuable time on a loser) you could try giving him a dose of his own medicine.  Make plans to meet and then just don't go.  See what happens.  If he makes a scene about it then use his own words back at him like 'oh....I forgot...sorry'.  It will teach him a lesson.  If, however, he doesn't even murmur about it then you can be fairly sure he never turned up at the meeting place or he just isn't bothered enough about you.  On the whole I think you should dump him and find yourself someone with a bit more respect for you.

Answer 5

He shouldn't be doing this to you. Yes, ignore him and go around with someone else.

Answer 6

Move your friend on, just like the traffic!

Answer 7

You need a different friend.  He obviously isn't into you.

Answer 8

he is not a friend...ignore him & let him make contact....i personally would not have him as a friend full stop!

Answer 9

its simple jst dont arrange to meet up with him. when he asks you why just say cos you always let me down. dont be rude about it and just explain it to him. or if you wanna be more suttle just ring him and remind him a bit before your supposed to meet up and say "dont stitch me up" if a m8 kept ditching me i wouldnt really class em as a mate. it sounds like hes always looking for a better option so he'll say yes to everyones then pick the one he likes the most at the time...

Answer 10

I have been through similar experiences where a girl I liked kept letting me down when it came to meeting up. I ignored her and moved on. She then contacted me to ask to forgive her for the way she was. if they cant be bothered about you why should you be?? He obviously does'nt care and you deserve better.

Answer 11

ignore him at the moment!

Answer 12

Talk to him about how you feel, tel that the next time you will not want talking to him if the do that.

Answer 13

Yes you should ignore him for a while, Let him miss you, and wonder why he didn't value you and care about your feelings, then next time he wants to hang out, Blow him off, so he knows how it feels, And or, you can straight up tell him how you feel, maybe he just doesn't realize its having an effect on you.

Answer 14

Wait until he needs you and don't turn up. Then explain why you did it. That should work.

Answer 15

i would stop wasting my time and stick with friends I can rely on