What do you do when the guy you like won't be with you unless you do stuff with him?

Question

What do you do when the guy you like won't be with you unless you do stuff with him?

Answer 1

Do stuff with him...

self-explanatory.

Answer 2

Leave him... as fast as you can.  If he doesn't respect you now, he won't when he gets what he wants.  Plain and simple.  No exceptions!

Answer 3

If your are looking for a serious relationship with some one, You dump him!!!  Unless you like the stuff you do with him.  He is just using you...

Answer 4

dont degrade your self over him rid this person if he truley loved you he would have feelings for you in this matter. ?

Answer 5

Stop liking him and tell him to get lost.

Answer 6

Ditch him! If all he wants is physical gratification (s*x) ... then you don't need to waste your time.

Answer 7

Move on, he's not worth your time.

Answer 8

kick his butt to the curb. the way hes acting is belittling to you. would you rather have a man that you have to buy or have one that gives his heart to you freely. any one male or female who puts up with being treated this away will aways end up unhappy and alone in the end. while the other person makes off with the goods.

Answer 9

What stuff?  If it's s*x, tell him, he's not good in bed and then get another boyfriend who will treat you right.

Answer 10

horsecrazy 72 456, he's just using you, if he won't be with you, unless you do "stuff"( AS IN s*x?) with him, he doesn't truly love you-sorry, and don't degrade yourself that way.

Answer 11

find another guy

Answer 12

give him the flick

Answer 13

If by "stuff" you mean s*x, then DUMP him!

Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with.

Answer 14

Very clear, he doesn't love or respect you in the least, he simply has the impression that you are an easy s*x partner and he doesn't want to make any commitment.  Why should he if you keep having s*x with him without marriage.  You may not like the label but let's be honest--that DOES mean that you are easy.  You attracted him with s*x, you offer it to him, why should he put out any effort to love you?

Answer 15

I would dump such a guy right away,,,cuz his intentions are more than clear.

He wants just "stuff" and not you.

Dont let him use you.

Dump n be damned...but dump anyway.

And in the future...steer clear of such scum-bags,sweetie.

God bless you.

Answer 16

Break up with him. He is just out to use you for s*x. The next thing you know he'll be begging to go without a condom and then you will end up pregnant by this guy! you don't want that. dump him

Answer 17

do stuff