What do you do.. when ur whole life around you starts crumbling in front of ur eyes?

Question

well.. my friends think i'm sum1 else.. sum of my friends who i Thought were my friends started speaking behind my back.. n my phone bills are of the roof

Answer 1

Listen kid, you haven't even reached a 1 million mile distance from the edge of existance. When you live in a poor country, with no food, no clothing, and your people are killed by military. Then your life is crumbling.

1. IF YOU THINK YOUR DIFFERENT, AND HATE IT, THAN CHANGE IT! IF YOU DONT WANT TO THEN DONT COMPLAIN! DEAL WITH IT! Just like everyone else in this world is!

2. PEOPLE SUCK, THEY BACK STAB, GET OVER IT!

3. GET OFF THE PHONE or TALK ONLY ON WEEKENDS AND AFTER 9 WHEN ITS FREE (that is if you have it on your plan)

Jeez, when you have a real problem then post a question.

Answer 2

Dont worry about what other people think too much.

People always judge each other and gab about each other it goes on for ever.

You just need to grow thicker skin and find nicer people to spend time with and get a new phone plan with unlimited calling too.

Answer 3

Its not as bad as your putting it to be

Try dealing with the experience of all your family members being killed or put in a grave condition because of cancer.

Answer 4

1. meet new people to be friends with.

2. don't make so many phone calls.

Answer 5

hi u remind me my teens i was so sensitive then that i suffered face paralysis.but after my recovery i made a resolution never to be over sensitive again, a concious effort, with every difficulty say to ur self that "this shall pass too" & it certainly withers away. remember live ur moments, life is a gift dont let u or anybody else ruin it for nothing." try to avoid tensions if u cant pass it on others"

Answer 6

whoat?!

your friends think you're someone else & they're the same friends that backbites you?

Be frank to them. Tell them that you don't like the way they're acting.

Ask them why are they talking behind your back.

Because if they're your true friends, they will confront you with anything that they think they dislike from you.

And about your phone bills.. hmmmmm.. just limit those chit chats.

Answer 7

....point and laugh

Answer 8

Stop making as many calls

Start making new friends

Answer 9

DEAR GOD ARE YOU SERIOUS! ur right, your life is over!

Answer 10

You get on with your life!  Your friends aren't your 'whole life', neither is your phone bill, or debts in general.  

Decide what you want to do with your life, what do you want to do this year?  Make a plan and start working towards it.  Just get on with your life, and whichever friends stay with you as you get on with it are the ones worth keeping.  You'll make friends as you go too - that's life.

As for your phone bill, cut back on your calls if you're making too many, and maybe get a better tariff -look around.

Hope this helps!

Answer 11

start by finding the core of the problem, then heal from there, straighten out the ends that are bent, you need to know who you really are and have trust in yourself and confidence, find your real friends, if they talk behind your back then they are NOT friends, they are unloyal and pathetic, demand your trust but expect it in return you get me? know a person longer and deeper and closer before you start to make new friends again. Trust is a hard thing to rebuild confidently, but use your head before your heart in this situation.

Answer 12

it doesn't really sound that bad

just remember to be thankful because someone else always has a worse life than you, but truly chill out on the cell and try going to some hangout places to meet new people and as for your other friend just hang them more and get to know each other better if you truly have changed they may like the new you better, but your probably just acting weird because your stressed and you need to find yourself and do something that makes you happy and relaxed

Answer 13

When I was younger, I stuck my nose in a book for escapism. These days, if life gets too stressful, I sleep as much as possible.