What do you do when you're in pain, nothing goes right and you feel that the world is against you???

Question

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6R85RjD5hnw

This always helps me!

Answer 1

Most people, I think just try to move on and  figure out a way to make themselves feel better. This only works, well, until it doesn't any longer. When the time comes when this survival tactic just won't bring us any relief, we really have to come to the understanding of why we feel so much suffering and pain in the first place.

Honestly when you think about it, we try as hard as we can to keep some sort of even playing ground. Some kind of middle line where as long as we have enough ups in life, we can endure the downs when they come along as well. And they always always do.

Why is this the way it is? Why do we work so hard and struggle through life when it seems that at the end of the day, so to speak, we are no better off than when we started? I found that there really is a reason for this pain we go through. We are made that way, in a sense, for the very reason you asked this question. Until we stop and honestly ask why we must continue to suffer, we will never search for the answer and just keep on at the same pace we always have.

That is fine for most people, because they really have not arrived where you are just yet. They will carry on down that same path they have always been on and will be left to face the ever increasing pain that will lie ahead. That is until each one finds for themselves the root of all our suffering.

I linked a video at the bottom explaining not only the source of our suffering, the one responsible for it, but also a way to choose a different path when we are ready to. Best wishes to you and I do hope you find the answers you are searching for.

Answer 2

no...the message is OK...but I hate that style of music. Reminds me of cowboys with moustaches bopping away and having a Ho-down...I dont like cowboys lol........lol

Answer 3

Barricade myself in a bell tower with a 30.06 rifle.

Luckily, for all of us, things don't go _that_ wrong very often.

Answer 4

I go out and do something new or just for myself!  Even if its buying a new fingernail polish color, treating myself to a Starbucks or whatever I don't ever get to do, it is just for me!  Then I say a prayer and call my friends that are always there to lift me up!  ;)

Answer 5

keep moving on anyway, it passes