What do you do when you're married and religious and sexually frustrated?

Question

My husband was diagnosed with stomach cancer a few years ago,and says this is the reason he's not able to perform. I am a 43 year old very sexual active mom and grandmother and if I most say still look good, haven't had any complaints. Please help.

Answer 1

so humm your husband was diagnosed with stomach cancer and you're mad because you're not getting any? is that it? are you for real? No you're not, because no human being can be so selfish...

Answer 2

How can you be sexually active when he has not been able to perform for a few years? Whatever that activity is, you should probably keep on doing it.

Answer 3

I understand your frustration. Sexuality is not just about getting our physical needs fulfilled, its also about getting our emotional needs met and there is a spiritual aspect to this.

Your vow to your husband was to be faithful to him and short of selling out on that, you really cannot consider the option of having an affair with someone else.

You need to work outside the box to get your sexual needs met - talk to your husband about how your feel and together explore options for fulfilling your sexual needs - you could set out deliberatee time for this, creating romance and intimacy that does not necessarily occassion intercourse- while he might not be aroused, he can touch you and you can  mutually find out what suits you both.Hard as your present circumstance is, its an opportunity for you to develop a high level of intimacy and friendship.

God is also in the business of meeting needs, you need to bring your need before Him and ask for wisdom to deal with it.

All the best and I hope your husband gets better.

Answer 4

Toys, toys, toys.... you take care of what he isn't able to take care of. Yeah, it's not completely the same, but it vents the frustrations and you still get that release.

Answer 5

get a toy.  But God changes all things, miracles to happen he it testing your loyalty and faith with your husband

Answer 6

What does being religious have to do with it? Do you mean you want to have s*x with another man but you feel guilty incase it's a sin? Talk to your husband and tell him you feel that way

Answer 7

TROLL!!!

Anyone stupid enough to answer this deseves a pie in the face.