What do you do when you and your lover's astrology is not good

Question

First of all this is a question for those out there that have studied astrology,and know a thing or two about it. For I cannot change the minds of those that do not believe and you cannot change the fact that I do believe. With that said, recently I was able to see through our composite and synastry why my ex and I didn't work. Now I am with someone new and our composite and synastry is just as bad if not worse than what it was with my ex. The problem is I am a Taurus sun, Pisces moon (in the 7th house), and Virgo rising. So basically I hate to give up, feel like I have to save my loved ones (especially partners), and hate starting over. Here are a few things that I am talking about, in our composite we have Saturn in the 1st opposite Neptune in the 7th, both Venus and Jupiter in the 1st square Mars and Pluto in the 4th, and our 1st and 7th houses are swallowed with the moon, Saturn, Venus, Jupiter, and Neptune inside. Can anyone give me advice on both the aspect listed and rather or not the aspects are worth trying to overcome. I am a fighter but you also got to know when to say when. I have John Townley's Composite book and in it with some of the aspects I have listed he says to throw in the towel but like I said I am Taurus-Pisces-Virgo!!

Answer 1

I study astrology seriously on my own.

First of all astrology is only there to help you. Never let it tell you a lover is no good. Use it to understand the possible problems and to understand your lover.

The information you gave me is not very clear. But it looks like it's saying that you sometimes have opposite way of thinking and are at odds sometimes.

A good way for me too start looking at you two together would be to know all the signs. Looking at the signs, is a good way to see how you two relate and could tell you if you have any big diffrences. For exsamle if your moon signs and mercury signs are commpatible, it means you have simular ways of thinking.

I haven't heard of this book, but you should take it's advice if any is given,but do not stress over it.

Answer 2

this is the midpoint chart?   where is your sun at in the midpoint one?  I'm not sure about the aspects above because I am not an astrologer just a fellow person interested in astrology.  What happens when you do the other relationship chart where you compare both charts on top of each other and compare planets in each others houses?  It doesn't sound hopeless there is always something that is good.  check out this website too because it helps too to find things in common.....called SHARED AFFINITIES

http://www.thezodiac.com/room.htm

Answer 3

First of all, ViolentSmithers makes a lot of sense... Never mind what astrology says... how do you get along? How long have you been seeing each other?

All astrology does is show you the areas where you two are smooth and were it can be rough... Astrology cannot tell you if you with love someone or not. Astrology helps you cope, but it does not make final statements.