What do you do when you are in love with your teacher?

Question

I am in love with my teacher and I have been for about a year now..I know its not a little crush I cant get over him. ive tried soo many times but i cant ..I know i shouldnt even bother with loving him because i am only 16 and he is alot older ..like in his 30's..and he is married with a daughter ..that's my age..soo wat should i do to get over him?!?!

Answer 1

i know how you fell. But trust me, this is not love. He's just someone you look up to and feel safe around. Most girls of your age do "fall in Love" with teachers.But i think that it's nothing more than infatutaion. Just focus on your studies and don't do anything foolish. If you wih, you may have a "realationship" with him when you turn 18. but before that, don't do anything stupid beacuse then you'll jeopordize his life and career.

  

Answer 2

Find somone else to be with.

Answer 3

don't get over him. get under him ;)

lmao. No. Don't.

im sorry love is hopeless. all you can do is try to focus your affection on somebody else for now.  

Answer 4

Bad Girl!  You need to flagellate yourself, or get a Nun to beat you with a yardstick.

Answer 5

awwww forbidden love... (kinda) anyways well all you can hope to do

is pass the grade and hide ur feelings though and just look for a guy

that looks like him lol XD (doubt that but watever) lol so yaaa....

Answer 6

You can not be "in love" without having a LOT more aspects to a relationship: communication, trust, intimacy, care for each other, sharing dreams, etc. This is most definitely an infatuation. Just ask yourself what you like about him. Then, remind yourself that that's not realistic and there is no way that is would (or should) ever happen. Focus your attention on doing good in his class, other boys, your friends, or sports.

Hope everything works out for you.  

Answer 7

Um, you just get over it. You're not in love with him. That's called puppy love. You're 16, you don't know true love. I thought I was in love when I was 16, pfft, now I know true love, and I'm 32.

All this is, is a crush, nothing more. I know your feelings are real but it's NOT "love", it's called "obsession".

Answer 8

Nope you are not in love honey ... You are obsess with him .. So be careful cause obsession is kinda sick if you don't stop it or control it

Answer 9

i think the best thing u could do is find another guy around ur age u really like and try to date him.. it would probably help to get ur mind off ur teacher.. and plus if he is in his 30's and ur only 16.. that'ss sooo illegal