What do you do when you don't get along with your parent...?

Question

i'm going to be 21. we still argue like we always have been. it sucks. i grew up so much and changed a lot. It's not good enough. I feel like people just naturally hate me. like we could be fine and dandy...then boom it's like they hate me. my boss was like that too. i did everything for him. plus extra..like working like crazy for everyone else. yet i was told i never worked...ya know 6 days a week plus overtime...is not work! my mom too. shes like telling me i know you and this and that...and she doesn't! and it's just so annoying. i've realized it's her attirude and shes stressed...but come on. im shocked what she said isn't eating me away. she crosses the line every argument. i hate that we fight. i hate that im not the golden child she wants. i can deal with it...i can go on and have a good relationship with friends and live...but its depressing. i want to make her proud...i want her to be happy for me..and not hate me. how can i change this? how can i make her see im not a 2 year old anymore? besides all that i do already.

Answer 1

what i do is i talk 2 someone in my family and they will help me out or talk 2 a friends parent so i can get help on what 2 do or sumthing like that. it hurts alot when ur in that condition

im srry man hope u feel better  

Answer 2

just annoy what the people say about you. And dont stress yourself too much to be what yr mum likes. You don live for her.. you  live for yourself. and Too that might be the stress that makes you angry at things everyday.

Answer 3

Your already 20, so that means that you can move out of the house.  The people you mentioned are probably judging you by your looks, which is definitely wrong.  Or, you can make an appointment for your mom to go to a stress treatment facility (or whatever it is called).  Your boss?  Maybe a colleague in secret is plagiarizing your work and turning it in to the boss.

Answer 4

yeah. i know what it's like. what i do is listen to music and try to drown everyone out. or i use it as an excuse to become motivated and show them what i can be. good luck.

Answer 5

I'm 17 and i live with my dad and all we do is fight ( mostly because he don't like my close or because i don't do so great in school) but it is just something you have to deal with