What do you do when you find out someone is talking behind your back?

Question

Just like the question says.

Answer 1

I will  go and stand in front.. so they would  talk in front of me

Answer 2

You know, I have SERIOUS issues with people talking about me behind my back. It's just immature and annoying. But as more time goes on, I've realized it's just something that's always going to happen.

If you're in this situation, I suggest you just talk to that person and tell them you don't appreciate them talking about you behind their back. If the situation warrants it, tell them they need to grow up!

Answer 3

Confront the person, if it's the first time i'll probably let it go depending on what they were saying. If it's the second time or more then i'll just forget that person even excist. Because i don't need a friend who is constantly going to talk stuff behind my back when ever i do something they don't like, if they don't have the guts to come and say it to my face then that's their problem.

Answer 4

Block them from

myspace

Aim

MSN

Delete their phone number.

Finally realize your better than them, and getting back, and confrontation, is not worth your time. Finally, and never talk to them again.

done and done.

Answer 5

wat the ****have you been saying about me you rat  

Answer 6

I ask them if they are. Then I ask what they're saying and why they did it.

If they refuse to apologize or have cruel intention, I tell them to go away.

Answer 7

My bad approach: I just stop talking to them. They know what they did.

Good approach: Confront them. Ask upfront and go from there. No remorse s***w them, sincerity=forgiveness.

Answer 8

Try talking to them and if you can be as nice as possible... they will regret talking smack about you!...  

Answer 9

First of all... they would only talk behind your back 'cause they feel intimidated or jealous...So try looking at it in a different way.

You should grab both people- the one who talks behind your back - and the one that addressed that they do.

Ask them both if it's true.... And you will know who exactly did what by their reactions and if they lie etc...

Answer 10

confront them. ask them if they did it and why. and really understand the source of teh problem if they did it for it could be resolved.