What do you do when you have a 'weird' vibe about someone?

Question

I always have this 'weird' vibe with one of my colleague (a guy). I rarely have such strong vibes with anyone .. but with him - I get a creepy vibe. It's as though I feel he's perverted some sort. I go to this 'radar-alert mode' whenever he approaches me. I know I may not be resonable to behave this way but he just makes me feel so uncomfortable!!

Do you take notice when you have such vibe abt someone?

Answer 1

you know what? whenever i had this suspicion about someone, i was usually right. sometimes your intuition gives you warning for a reason. either that or he reminds you of someone who did something bad to you in the past.

if you want to non-verbally deflect him: put up a guard, don't reveal too much info about yourself, give him only one-word closed answers to his questions, whenever you see him approaching, chat with someone else, pick up the phone, start typing, file papers, whatever...

Answer 2

you  have  to  be  on your  guard  with  strangers  especially if they  behave  strangely.

you  dont  have  to  show  it  though.  you  can  be  polite.  you  COULD even  talk  to  him  .  

I just  say  hi and  ask  for  the  time and  see  what  happens. he  might  just  be  in  a  world  of  his  own  thinking  to  himself.

that kind  of  unhindered  approach can draw  people  into  a  more  social  mood and  he  may  come  off  normal  once  he  starts  talking to  you.    i  use it  when  faced  with menacing  looking  thugs on  dark streets. 9 times  out  of  10 they're  normal decent guys  and  even  the  tenth  will  often  give  me  the  time  

Answer 3

Listen to your gut feeling, ALWAYS. Even though nothing may happen, just stay in tuned with yourself and don't let 'logic' take over. Stay away from this guy.

Answer 4

haha yeah, it makes me real uncomfortable.

i just try to aviod the person as much as possible

Answer 5

I get that sort of vibe from Obama. That is a major factor in why I will not vote for him.

There is something not right about the man...just a feeling that he would do a lot of damage if elected president. There is absolutely NO sense of trust or confidence.

I have never met him...or seen him in public. To be honest, I wouldn't want to. He gives me the creeps...that is a "weird vibe".

EMT