What do you do when you no longer love your spouse and everything they do get on your nerve?

Question

What do you do when you no longer love your spouse and everything they do get on your nerve?

Answer 1

Look yourself in the mirror and try to figure out what you are doing wrong.

Answer 2

Get some help to figure out exactly what he does and has done to make you fall out of love.  One falls out of love for a reason or reasons.  Does he know what he's done?  Do you?  If you can discuss matters without a counselor, do that but many couples need to learn how to talk about sensitive subjects.  

Answer 3

Figure out why you're letting yourself get stressed so easily, get some perspective, and do the hard work it takes to fall back in love with your spouse.  The problem lies within you.  If you don't correct this, and instead move on to a new relationship, you'll take the problem with you and you'll experience it again and again.

Answer 4

Sounds like anything he does pisses you off. I think you need a reality check and take a good look in the mirror at yourself first. We are not all perfect like you missy. You must have been walking on water for a while now. Get your head out of your butt and grow up.

Answer 5

hmmm,,read your marriage VOWS,,,over & over,,for better or worse/sickness&health,i dont think boredom is in there anywhere,dont take them too lightly,&dont give up,

Answer 6

get a bunch of canned goods, water, flash lights etc. and go hide in your closet till he leaves......

LMAO

WTF do you think you should do?

Heres one,

TRY LEAVING!!!!!!

Answer 7

My husband annoys me daily.  Just have a big glass of wine, he will become less irritating:)

Answer 8

Boy do I wish I knew.  That's where I am now.  If you find the answer, please fill me in.

Answer 9

Girl...I bail!  F that.  Life is too short to be unhappy.  

Answer 10

Then that is your sign that it's time to leave.  

Answer 11

Try to figure out why things have gone South and see if you can turn things around to find the love you once had. Sometimes love is not all sunshine and roses, once in a while you gotta get your hands dirty and work for love.

Its not his fault, its not your fault, but its probably both of your faults in some way. You can be like everyone else and just throw it all away to find something new, or you can stick with it and search for the love you seem to have lost. In my experience the second option is the best one. Normally if you are able to figure things out the love is actually stronger between you and your spouse than it was before! God bless and good luck!

Answer 12

sounds like there's only one thing left to do.

end it and leave

Answer 13

The only thing worse than divorce is a bad marriage.

Answer 14

Happy hit it right!  Listen to him!

Answer 15

Take a break, go stay with a friend or relative, don't talk for a week or two. You will either appreciate him more, or feel better without him.  

Answer 16

As long as no children are involved be honest to him and yourself and get a divorce.  If children are involved then get professional help.