What do you do when you still like your ex???

Question

i broke you with someone who i still like and i have bin having dreams ever since i talked to him a couple of days ago!!!!!!!!!!!So what do ido i am not going to the same school as him but i know were he lives!!!!!!!! HELP SOMEONE PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 1

it's hard getting over an ex, i have to admit as i'm so hung up on my ex that i cry myself to sleep ever night and when we don't talk i just go crazy! but he doesn't realise he is doing it and speaks to me like everything is fine! and it's not!!

like you, when we split up, all my dreams were pretty bad, i had close friends dying, i was killing people and getting beat up and all sorts but weird thing was, my ex was always there to pick up the pieces for me and it was weird and it made me think loads when i woke up.

i feel like such a hypocrite when i say this as i cannot do it myself but you need to just try and move on; keep yourself busy, play LOUD dance, trance, drum and bass music, cos that is the music you know you cannot get upset to. today i've had it on all morning and day and my ex has been a k**b and i've not cried any tears :) so that is good. also, write down your feelings for him, get it off your chest for a bit and it will get easier! me and my ex argued last night, well early hours this morning and all yesterday i cried over him but once i calmed myself, he was horrible and it got easier, i never cried, i just smiled and thought to myself, things WILL get better! go out with friends or something. the times when you are alone, hurt the most so just put some loud music on, if parents are in the put headphones on and turn it up loud :)

Answer 2

well your relationship could't have been perfect, i mean,  you must have broken up for a reason. so just try to remember that reason, remember why your relationship wasn't working out, and try to go out and meet new people to keep your mind off of him

Answer 3

I've gotten back together with old flames a couple of times and it never works out because your still dealing with the same issues that were the original problems on why you broke up in the first place. I wish I knew what the appeal was when you see an ex, but think about why you broke up with him in the first place. Has he changed, do you feel like you made a mistake, has it been a long time since you dated and you miss being in a relationship, or is it just a physical attraction? Sometimes it does work out, my friend recently got back together with her ex and is so happy because they realized how much they missed each other and that they needed to grow up a little. So I guess you just have think is it worth it to try to get back together and do you actually think it will work out this time.

Answer 4

i guess it would depend I broke up with someone I still like to and we are neighbors he goes to the high school so where not in the same school either so I asked him back out and he said no I was so mad but I know he still has a crush on me the way he acts when he's around me so don't give up go to his house and ask him out if he says no look for the signs that he still likes you.

Answer 5

1. if the reason for your break off is settled now, or u have found out a solution, go and tell him how u feel.

OR

2. if that problem still exists, cut off all contacts with him, get a hold on yourself, slowly everything will be ok.  

Answer 6

Go back to them.