When he was in preschool it was a game, playing doctor etc. I have had the talk with him starting out calm, letting him know it's not o.k to touch or look at others genitals. Since then he has been caught looking and actually touching others genitals. His female cousin of the same age is usually an instigator and they have teamed up on other children. He has resorted to lying to me and not telling me what really happened, so punishement has become more severe, spankings for lying, not having sleep overs, and not playing with friends. Recently I just found out that his cousin made him take down his pants and licked his genitals. He has been told it's not o.k and when he is in this situation to tell an adult and he won't be in trouble. His Father and I are divorced and share custody, all of this has happened either at school or on his Fathers watch. Please help I am at wits end and next is a child phsycologist.
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