What do you do when your friendship is about to end?

Question

Or what do you do to snap out of the c**p mood you are left in?

I am fighting with a friend I used to be really close with in high school because she never has time for me now over Uni and other friends and I cracked it at her. After about 1.5 years of not having time for me. Now she's bringing up stuff I did wrong in high school that she never told me about. Relating to the same sort of problems. I never actually got upset about her not hanging out with me over family commitments then though and she's claiming I did and now it seems we're about to end. What should I do? I have said sorry and explained how I feel many times and it seems my other friends are barely talking to me either. HELP? :'(

Answer 1

Let her go her way and you go your's, bringing up things you are supposed to have done wrong now that they don't matter is childish, and is merely to justify herself to herself, because she probably can't think of any other excuse  to distance herself from you.

Answer 2

I sounds to me like you need to make an effort to have a more positive outlook.  No one wants to hang out with someone who's negative all the time.  Think of something that makes you smile and try to keep it on you mind at all times.  Also, consider setting a goal and working towards it.  The sense of accomplishment will make you feel good about yourself and it will radiate out to other people.

Try to remember that positive energy attracts positive energy.  

Good luck.

Good luck.

Answer 3

hmm...maybe you really did the stuff but you forgot...if not, maybe she is just depressed or upset about something...maybe telling her sorry is or explaining how you feel is not enough...maybe YOU need to understand how she feels...about your other friends barely talking to you, there must be a reason. Whatever the reason, you should find out the reason...or maybe they have no reason to talk to you...or it is you who is not talking to them...not them not talking to you...or maybe they  are all upset, or they know you are upset and does not want to bother you in any way...anyways, just find out the reason and think about how to solve it...