My girlfriends 12yr old daughter seems to be manipulating her against us being together. This kids dad bailed on her, has not even seen her in the last 12 months, and they don't get a penny from him. Basic deadbeat, always disappointing the kid. When we started dating the kid really seemed to like me, Now I have just gone thru some big changes, I had a lap-band put in and have totally changed the way my entire family looks at food. her daughter is pushing 200lbs @ 12yrs old. She binges on sugar and basically stuffs her face with anything "bad" that will fit in it...seriously. I know this unsaid conflict is at the root, When I'm around she feels self conscious about her gorging on food,,even sneaks it when I'm around. I have never said anything to her about her eating habits, she implies it?
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