What do you do when your partner might like someone else?

Question

I think my husband is fascinated by someone else ever time she is around he acts strange and tries to eye her off on the sly but I seem to catch he out all the time, then when I ask him if he has a crush on her he says I am thinking stupid, but I can't shake the feeling he has a major crush and might just act on this crush what should I do.

I am 33 weeks pregnant and all we do is argue about everything and it feels like he is distancing himself from me I just don't know what to do we should be happy at a time like this but we are not.

Answer 1

you could suggest a counselor.  focus on your pregnancy more as it seems he's not focused on you or your child.  unfortunately, you need a roof over your's and your infants head.  you could tell your hubby your plans and ask him what is he going to do about it.  cuz your concerns are very real, very worrisome.  good luck

Answer 2

well being a married women also to a very good looking man,I know what your feeling!!!!!

the thing is he may look at the menu but just don't order out!!! its natural for a man to look  and flirt a little.

and of course when you bring it up theres an argument or denial about it. you don't want to push him too it either.

the thing is your pregnant right now so its hard for you in return to do what he is doing to you to see how he would like it.

so talk with him again and  keep her away.

Answer 3

Dear, pregnancy is the time when ur hormones r acting in different ways then they usually do, this is very common phenomenon to feel unattractive during pregnancy, since u r 33 weeks pregant u must be feeling heavy,Drained & less attractive. pregnancy is the time when one is insecure about her body. i think ur husband is not helping u to overcome this period. it is not unusual for men to stare a lady, even if they r in luv with someone else. everybody likes beautiful things, even we ladies do. as men can't live without newspapers, electronic gadgets,cricket matches etc. similarly they can't stop staring & sometimes flirting with other ladies. it comes naturally to them. i don't want to generalize it but in most of the cases it is true.

                         so please stop fighting with ur hubby,whatever he is doing is harmless. it is not the looks that makes a relationship get going but the trust & understanding does.I hope u r not neglecting ur husband,since u r pregnant. if u do beware men may not show it but they love attention. take care of ur health, pamper urself & for god sake don't ruin the beautiful period of ur life by thinking such useless things.it is just a matter of few weeks,& after that it is not u but ur baby who is gonna get all the attention. enjoy this tensionfree period,ur life will change & so is ur relationship when ur baby comes in.

Answer 4

Not being the jealous type, I'd tell my wife that if she thinks she'll be happier with that person to go for it but,to remember that it's a one way street.

I can always find someone else to make happy and be happy with

Answer 5

change your arrangement so he doesn't see her some how you are socializing where she is at so change that.  And i bet you know why you argue so much so you need to work on that.

Answer 6

Tell him you think its cute that he has a crush. Give him a passionate kiss & take him to bed.

Answer 7

All I know is "Woman's Intuition" is rarely wrong I went through this with my ex-husband and when I looked back at it all the signs were there, and when I first started dating my fiance I always felt weird around him and a friend of his with was a woman and four years later he just admitted to me he did have a crush on her, just watch your back and your heart make good decisions for yourself and your baby

  Good Luck

Answer 8

your hormones are driving you crazy.....you are arguing because you are both scared about having and raising a baby; it's normal....don't throw oil in the fire by asking him questions in an accusatory manner...relax.....

Answer 9

WHAT WOULD LOVE DO NOW THAT IS YOUR HIGHEST AND BEST

ANSWER. BUT MUST INCLUDE YOURSELF. TRY BEING HIS FRIEND. IF HE WANDERS, IT REALLY IS OUT OF YOUR CONTROLL. YOU CAN NEVER CONTROL ANOTHER PERSON. YOU CAN NOT MAKE THEM HAPPY. PLEASE FOCUS ON YOUR INNER BEAUTY ON YOU, DON'T GIVE AWAY YOURSELF TO A BARBIE THAT DOESN'T EXIST. BEAUTY LASTING FREINDSHIP IS MUCH DEEPER. EVERTIME YOUR MIND HAS THESE THOUGHTS

FOCUS ON YOUR BREATH, BRING YOURSELF BACK TO THE NOW. LOOK IN A MIRROR SEE HOW AMAZING YOU ARE.