What do you do with a DEAD BEAT ?

Question

What do you do when your boyfriend is unemployed and cant get a job and he sits around all day and watches TV? The only money he get is an unemployment check and does not contribute to our monthly expenses. In his defense he has nobody else he was taken away from his mother by the state when he was 7 grew up in foster homes his whole life and has a little bit of job training as a carpenters assistant. I feel sorry for him and pitty but I do not see my self getting any where with this anchor around my neck.

Answer 1

Tell him to go to a shelter. What a waste . Uncle Sam will take him if he's not to traumatized by his pitiful past life. The front line is waiting or he can get his c**p together & train for a better job or maybe look for one? If you feel sorry for him , then you are just as much to blame.

Answer 2

he's a loser and that makes you one for hanging out/being with him.  GUILTY by association!

Answer 3

"The problem is all inside your head", she said to me

The answer is easy if you take it logically

I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free

There must be fifty ways to leave your lover

She said it's really not my habit to intrude

Furthermore, I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued

But I'll repeat myself, at the risk of being crude

There must be fifty ways to leave your lover

Fifty ways to leave your lover

You just slip out the back, Jack

Make a new plan, Stan

You don't need to be coy, Roy

Just get yourself free

Hop on the bus, Gus

You don't need to discuss much

Just drop off the key, Lee

And get yourself free