What do you make of this??

Question

There's this girl (we dated like 5 years ago & broke up well I walked away without saying anything - yes stupid I know!!) Anyway we been in contact since 2 years now and talk almost everyday. She has a man who she got with about 2 years ago aswel! Hes exactly like me - personality. Anyway she flirts with me alot (but not to the point where it looks like flirting) Anyway so the other day we were out she held my hand for a bit smacked my *** lol told me to touch n feel how soft her skin was and daymmm it was lol buttt she loves this guy and is guna marry him so am I making to much out of nothing?? O yeah she told me she had a dream about me - n I kissed her and then she said no were just friends and then woke up...

longggggg lol but what do you make of this? and no I cant ask her.. dont wanna risk making this weird between us.

Answer 1

She probably still has feelings for you , but wants you to make the first move, I mean I've been with my bf for like 7yrs and I saw my love from 8yrs ago and I went home with him and just talked for hours but he was to shy to actually make a move , because my friend told him I was still with that guy He had hated, So  I went home to my bf and haven't seen the other guy since, But if he had made a move who knows I could've still been with him right now :(, so maybe you should'nt make a similar mistake, that is if you really care for her?

Answer 2

Maybe she made up the whole dream thing to hint you off because she's too shy to say it herself.

Maybe she's teasing you only as straight people normally do. =/

I think that it's smart not asking her because it would just make things weird.

Tough situation, maybe it's better to move on, and maybe it's better to take a shot at what might be your one chance.

I don't really know your whole story and this is as best as I can do.

Hope I helped.

Answer 3

Her dream sounds like what is happening...you're friends...(the kiss) you continue to be friends...and that's it...  You apparently think or want to think you may 'still have a shot'...I would disagree with you...  You're friends and that's it...she IS marrying the other guy after all...  If she delays the wedding, with NO coersion from you, then you may have another chance...but, don't count on it...

Answer 4

it's either she trying to get back at you for turning away from her .. or she is simply hinting you that, you are still in her thoughts.

but it's not as easy as back then, as now she has to be responsible for her relationship with the guy as well

Answer 5

I think she sounds really confused.

She's had this fling with you that was just left (as in wasn't ended) and then she's gone and gotten herself a man. She needs closure on it all, as is reflected in the dream - she want reassurance that you're just her friend, or maybe some kind of clarification to her own desires.

She sounds very lost, just give her some space. If she's in love with this guy it'd be for the best.

that's my 2 cents anywho,

Lita

Answer 6

sound like a come on to me. be careful though it also sounds like she could be doing this as a last fling before getting married.