What do you say to a guy after you get his number?

Question

So yesterday I met this guy at the beach and I got his phone number. I want to call him to hang out...but what do I say? I don't even know where we would hang out. Should I bring friends when we're hanging out?

Answer 1

call him, and be like "hey do u wanna hang out?" and u can go with him with friends or alone depending on how close u guys got on the beach. it really doesnt matter its ur choice. if he wants to bring friends thats fine.

Answer 2

Suggest you meet with a group, then you get a second chance to check him out, and it won't be such a strain for either of you. It's probably what he would prefer anyway.

Answer 3

whatever you're comfortable with. I would give it a couple days before you call. let him wonder. then when you do, keep it short. keep him wanting more. and be like, just wondering what you're up to, if you have plans with weekend and want to get together, what things are you into. and yes, a group thing would take a lot of the pressure off. tell him to bring his friends too so he doesnt feel out numbered. maybe meet back at the beach and then grab a bite to eat. talk and get to know each other more.  maybe a theme park or have a house party. whatever similar interests you have.