What do you say to someone who acts magnanimous ... ?

Question

But who is actually a complete idiot?

I got a lecture yesterday from someone I used to be close to. He broke off our "friendship" to chase a girl, though that's not the reason he gives. Anyway, he starts by saying what a nice guy he really is. And then off into this "oh, these things happen sometimes" rambling dialogue. Which actually wasn't that bad. So after he goes on for a while, he finishes off with " ... If they (meaning me) wonder why things stand where they stand, a mirror and some self-honesty should do the trick"

And this coming from the master of lies and deception, self and otherwise. He's said things to this effect before, but he never had the gall to say it outright before. What a hypocrite! I was furious! So then I said a bunch of things that may not been appropriate ... though I don't really regret them, they were well deserved. And i'm still angry. Maybe I should let it go, but I still feel like he needs to be taught a lesson. What should I say to this creep?

Answer 1

Give the "mysterious" smile, and say "bye-bye" and keep walking, don't look back. You aren't going to miss a thing, except more of the same.  

Answer 2

The best and most appropriate thing you can say to him as a lady are two simple words...."GOOD BYE".  He disrespects you, he lies you and he just treats you poorly.  You deserve someone better and it's time for you to move one.  Don't even give him to time to start uttering anymore of his foolish lies and stories...say "good bye" and let it be over with.  You deserve so much better.  Good luck!!!

Peace & Love  :)

Answer 3

I wouldn't say anything anymore. Just walk away. let him show someone else how "nice" he is. :D