What do you tell someone who keeps telling people that I wanted to have an abortion?

Question

Me and my boyfriend planned to have a baby. 2 weeks later we changed our mind BUT if I did end up pregnant nothing would be done because at the time it was planned.

So I took the test and it was . We were excited, and I told my so called best friend. So a few weeks later she says she thinks she's pregnant (she has s*x and immediatly thinks she's pregnant...always). A week later she tells me she's almost positve she's pregnant, but gets her period. She says she miscarried but she never had a for sure positive, nor did she miss a period.

So she goes around telling whoever (she has no friends) she can plus me "I wanted a baby and I had a miscarriage. You wanted to kill your baby and now your still pregnant." I have never once said I/we wanted a abortion, I just said we changed our mind BUT if I did end up we would be happy.

I'm excited about this baby and so is my boyfriend, what do I tell her? She didn't even know for sure if she was and 'miscarried" when her period was supposed to come.

Answer 1

That girl is not healthy in the head and sure no friend to go around saying that.  She is now jealous and probably will be a threat to your child because of the jealousy (maybe mean to it or feel to kidnap it).  I say get her out of your life permanently.  You have others to protect now.l

Answer 2

She's jealous.  Just show her love and involve her in the baby planning.  Tell her there's no reason for her to feel left out and she is still your best friend no matter what.

Answer 3

well to go around telling people that doesn't sound like a good friend so i think you should sit her down and try to work it out if that doesn't work im not sure what to tell you.  

Answer 4

It sounds like she's jealous, If she's your friend, let it go , if she's just an acquaintance, TELL HER TO MIND HER OWN BUSINESS!!

Answer 5

dont talk to her. She sounds like a waste of time.

Answer 6

I think I would put some space between me and her and I mean right away! She sounds OFF! When brains are turned off then the thinking process is gone!

Answer 7

I don't understand what the question is here.  This whole situation sounds like a few teenagers are having a spat.  You planned to have a baby then changed your mind?  For crying out loud..it's not a puppy.  You are far from ready.

Answer 8

Tell her to F*** Off and start getting new friends. She is poison - unable to be happy for you or to allow other people to be happy for you.

What could you possibly lose by cutiing her from your life entirely?

Tell her - you are so full of negative emotions that I refuse to inflict your polluted view of the world on my baby. So take a hike you crazy b****ch!

Answer 9

Ignore her if she was your friend she would of stuck by you not gone round saying that about you,

I some times think Friends do more harm than good and congratulations on your pregnancy