What do you think, was this more then A coincidence?

Question

Hi I lost someone to cancer recently and can't seem to get out of a very bad deep depression. I was praying really hard that they would give me a sign they are ok. Then a day later I was walking down the street and right in the middle of the street I'm not kidding seriously, there was a crystal or diamond chip!! This thing shines so bright you can flag planes!! I'm sure it's not glass but it doesn't even matter, I want to know if this was my sign? What would you think?

Answer 1

Rock Shiny!!  Hulk say goood omen.... HULK SMASH SHINY ROCK!!!... bad omen

Answer 2

I'm truly sorry for your loss dear lady. Not to be picky or anything this IS a "Mythology & Folklore" section.  I think your question belongs somewhere else. Once again sad to hear about your loss.

Answer 3

I think that it could be. Sorry about your loss. I think loved ones that have passed always stay near untill they know we are going to be ok. It might help to talk to a friend or councilor about your depression so that this dark cloud can be lifted from your life so that a new chapter can begin. I hope you have some more signs perhaps when you are ready you will dream about this person also.

Take care

Answer 4

I definately believe that it was a sign. My father passed away from cancer several years ago. I know exactly how you feel. I, too, asked for a sign. Funny enough, his sign to me, that happens still to this day, is he leaves me dimes. That might sound crazy but it's true. They are always in completely random places, only one, and always tails up. Trust your intuition. If you think it's a sign, it probably is.

Answer 5

They try to get your attention all the time.  I had an experience where my sister was trying to let me know something.  I was playing pinochle on yahoo.  We took the bid, got 68, took the bid again, got 68 again.  Took the bid a third time, got 86.  When we took it and got 68 again, it hit me.  I had asked my husband if my sister knows we moved.  We moved about a year after she died to another state.  My sister was born 1968.  The 86 was her biffing me off the head and saying "LOOK", as she would do in life.

They know we cry for them.  They do not cry because they "see us" all the time. You need to understand their experience here is over, and that is why they had to die.  My sister was 35, and her time was over when she passed.  I have been every emotion you can think of, sad, depressed, angry, vindictive, blue, sobbing, lonely, all of it.  I went through the whole scope of it before I began my healing.  Go through your grief, and it will get better when you are done grieving.

Answer 6

Someone who is trying to contact you is not going to send you a message in German if you can't read, speak or understand German. In other words, a person will send you a sign that lets you know that it is from them. Since most friends have a stored history of experiences and triggers that let each of them know that this is their friend (favorite color, favorite food, favorite phrase, etc etc etc.) your friend is not going to contact you by just going 'hey'. Since they know you need something that you can truly believe in, and truly believe came from them, they aren't going to just pick any old Hallmark from the pile. Just like you know a certain card or thought or piece of clothing is 'soo them', their sign will be the same way.

Answer 7

I am sorry that someone you love has left this level of existence.  Keep the memories in your heart and know that someday, you, too, will leave this level and be united with your loved ones.  Just as a catepillar sheds one life,  of crawling on its belly, he/she, will spend the next life flying in the breeze.  It is, perhaps, God's sign of showing us that the spirit goes on and never really dies. There are signs all around us. Be at peace.