What do you think I should do?

Question

I am a shy guy and like this girl. Should I just go up and say " I like you, you are very pretty?". The problem is I might blush and get nervous.

Answer 1

ask her out to dinner lol

Answer 2

NO!! ask her out  that wil creap her out

say

hey i was wondering if ud like to go to dinner

Answer 3

You would sound pretty creepy if you said that lol!

Just try to make the moves gradual...  that way you don't sound like a weirdo, also make sure she likes you back!  

Answer 4

go up to her (duh) and ask her on a date, tell yourself to be confident be nice be a gentleman... dont freak out

" hi, i was wondering if maybe you would like to go out with me for coffee (or lunch)**"

if she says no, dont put yourself down

** dont do dinner it is to quick!

Answer 5

I have been said the exact same words as yours by a guy who was 25 years old. He also became blush. I could not accept him.

I like men have confidence and a bit strength (not sensitive or nervous).

Men's blush & nervous make me feel "Girly". But you are just 20 years oold. So, you do not have to worry about it cuz it is no wonder your age does not have many experiences with girls. My story is just for older adult men.

Answer 6

I say go for it! Who cares if you blush or get nervous - girls think thats cute and sweet. I love it when boys blush!

Answer 7

you could take that approach, but that might not be your best approach unless you already have a rapport with her and she knows you a little better.

I think the best thing that you can do is set up to go do something somewhere for a short period of time and invite her to it.  "Hey, me and a couple of friends are going to mini-golfing friday evening, why don't you come with us it's gonna be a blast!"

It's a lot less intimidating that way because she's in a group, she doesn't have to decide on the spot if she likes you or not, you can get to know her while you're doing whatever you're doing, it doesn't make you seem desperate for someone to hang out with, you're inviting her into YOUR life to do something instead of molding your life around her answer, and if she sucks it leaves you a perfect out and somewhere to distract yourself but if she doesn't suck, it's real easy to ask her to go somewhere afterwards to get to know her better (ice cream, coffee, dinner, etc).

I think that's your best bet.

Answer 8

FLIRT... dont worry about blushing, most girls wont mind that at all. SHe may think its cute. Ask her to go to a movie or dinner. If she says no its no big deal. it doesn't mean your a reject it just means she has different preferences!

Answer 9

just start talking to her first and get to know her more, and theennnn telll her you like her. you cant just walk up to a girl and be like, i like you. but yeah just get to know her better.

Answer 10

Well, I would be kinda creeped out if you went about it like this.  You should just ask her if she would like to go out to eat or to a movie or something.  Sometimes girls can be old fashioned and want to take it slow.  You won't be as nervous if you actually date a bit first. Good luck!

Answer 11

for a second it might have worked if u were 13 but thats just pathetic

Answer 12

Just be like hey your pretty cute and I was wondering if you wanted to go to the movies with me ( or w/e else) and ask her to go places because she'll take the hint that you like her but I think it's a lot easier to hear, Sorry I'm not up to a movie right now rather then

No I don't like you

You get what I'm saying??

Answer 13

i think u shud do it or some how show that u like her

u have to get it out, it will make u feel much better

just face ur fears

and dunt wrry if u blush or get shy it just tells the girl that u really like her and it makes u seem sweet :)

Answer 14

Don't be shy, compliment her and ask her out, a little later.

Answer 15

Yes, do it. Think about it. Whats the worst that can happen? She says no? WHOOPTY DOO!

Answer 16

Dont do that just go up to her and say i think ur cute. would you like to go out sometime. if she says yes say cool and ask for her phone number. if she says no run away crying and try to avoid her.

Answer 17

Yaah....

wat's d prob in it? lol

go ahead...!

Best luck....hahaha