I met a guy at the gym last week. He approached me with interest as I was getting ready to leave. He wasn’t really my type but I talked to him anyway.
After 2 minutes of conversation, he really turned me off. First, he did not have enough vocabulary to carry on a conversation. He couldn’t express himself and he was like “what do you call it, what do you call that thing†when he couldn’t think of basic words. This happened like several times. There was really no excuse for this. English is his first and only language.
If that wasn’t bad enough, he was constantly using profanities. Curse words do not offend me and I actually curse a lot myself out of habit. However, I think it was poor taste on his part being that he just met me. I was speaking normally around him because I didn’t know him.
And then it got worse: he started talking about going to the gym so he could become better in the bedroom. Except he didn’t say it in the delicate terms I just used. He used a lot of crude language I won’t even post it here because it was that disgusting. I was so offended by that as I had just met him. It was so inappropriate. I told him that and he apologized. At that point, I abruptly ended the conversation and went about my business.
Is this bad or is it just me? It seems like I'm always meeting ill-mannered men of some sort. I carry myself with a lot of class. I don't dress or act S****y. Is this the norm nowadays or is it just my terrible, awful dumb luck with guys? What should I do?
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