What do you think about babies having babies?

Question

what do you think when you see young teen mothers with a baby? i think its terrible and there parents need to watch and control there children better.

Answer 1

Well i'm a teen Mom and i'm graduating 6 months ahead of my class. Going to university. Me and my boyfriend are still together and love our son very much. We are able to support our son on our own. We don't receive welfare, unemployment, etc.

I love being a teen mom and there's nothing wrong with it as long as you love and care for your child the way they should be loved and cared for.

Besides, if I was to run out and have an abortion, you would be the first one to say something about it anyways.

OK, I JUST READ YOUR PROFILE, YOUR NOT EVEN 16 WITH A BABY. WHY WOULD YOU CRITICIZE OTHER TEEN MOMS WHEN YOU ARE ONE YOURSELF? WHERE WERE YOUR PARENTS WHEN YOU GOT PREGNANT? ARE YOU SERIOUSLY BLAMING THEM FOR YOU GETTING PREGNANT? YOU DID IT, NOT THEM. IT'S YOUR OWN FAULT AND NO ONE ELSES. I DON'T BLAME ANYONE FOR MY PREGNANCY AND DON'T REGRET IT AT ALL..WHICH YOU SEEM TO....

Answer 2

I think you are wrong to judge all parents. You are not with your teen every minute of the day. They think are in love get pregnant. It has nothing to do with control. It only takes one time. So if you keep your teen locked up and never let them out of your sight I guess it would never happen. All you can do is try your best to teach your children how having s*x before they are ready could ruin or change their life forever. That's all you can do and hope for the best. The sad thing is it takes two. Where is the teen boy in all of this? Yes having a baby while a baby is sad. But a good parent will stand by their child when they make mistakes and try to help them not to make more. I am sure you did some things when you were a teen you were not suppose to. All of us did. Not all have s*x but most do and just don't get caught. So just because you see a teen with a baby does not mean the other teen beside her did not have s*x or bad parents.

Answer 3

From the looks of your profile,  you yourself, are a teen mother! Your 16 with a 4 month old!

I am a teen mother, 15 with a 13 month old, and it isn't easy. I'm still going to school. I am doing the best I can for my daughter!

If you are a teen mother then why would you sit there and criticize other teen parents? What were your parents doing when you got pregnant? Why weren't your parents controlling you? My parents did have control over me, I just chose to lie to my mom and tell her my boyfriends parents were home when they really weren't.

Answer 4

Maybe you shouldn't judge others.

These young girls could have easily had an abortion, but chose to take responsibility for their actions and raise their children.  Who are you to look down on them??

I think its sad that you feel the need to look down on others.

Answer 5

I THINK ITS SAD

Answer 6

Or how about a mom who doesn't know the difference between "there" and "their"?  That's sad too.

Answer 7

What do you think of people who ask questions just to flame? (Which IS against community guidelines)

Answer 8

until you are in the situation, i dont think you should comment. i lost my virginity at 14, i had unprotected s*x - so yes, i could have gotten pregnant, but i didnt listen. my mother tried to control me but i stuck my 2 fingers up to the world and done what i wanted.

im not proud of my childhood - but i cant change it, so why dwell on it.

its not ideal for teenagers to have babies, but who is to say they arent good mothers. i know 30 year old who are terrible parent - so i dont think the age factor is a valid excuse.

aside from that, i have a daughter and i would prefer her to come to me at 14 and say she was pregant than come and tell me she was a class a drug abuser, or that she was seriously ill. there is worse things in the world than a little baby. its how we as mother react to the situation which is the key, going crazy and throwing them out is not the way to go. id support my daughter, help her and educate her. id take part of the responsibilty as for her to choose to have unprotected s*x at such a young age is a failing on my part for not educating her.

Answer 9

i think you have no say in this, and its not that parents fault. sure the child could back been more responcipal like using protection but i think you shouldnt post questions about this