What do you think about female - male sleepovers in teenagers?

Question

With no parents

Answer 1

Bad idea...something is bound to happen. Even if they're in seperate tents, one boy or girl may sneak over to another tent, or worse, two will go off together to who knows where. I would never let my kids do that...it's practically asking for trouble.

Answer 2

Why not- they should be educated about in the whole field of s*x education. So if they are educated and know the risk let them do as they want- it's not my concern.

Answer 3

Ummm...NO.  NO. NO. NO WAY. NO.  Simply put...NO!!!

Answer 4

Errrr....not a good idea. I like the first answer...couldn't have said it better myself.

Answer 5

If they want to have s*x, they will. If you try to prevent it, they'll just try harder to do it. There's nothing "wrong" with s*x. Just talk to your kids and tell the parents of the others that are coming about it, so they're careful. The requirements for the sleep over should be that everyone's of legal age, disease tested, all girls are on birth control, and all guys are required to wear the anti-spermicidal condoms provided if they do anything.

It may sound nuts, but if all parents were like that, "Respect your parents" would be the cool new thing. Imagine how much respect you'd have from them, if you were accepting, logical and practical, yet firm on the other rules that make sense. They'd have nothing to hide, your friendship with your teens would grow, and the risk of pregnancy would probably go DOWN, because they're being safe and obeying you, rather than being possibly unsafe rebels.

Answer 6

I think you already know the answer to that one? Oh yes the tent changes everything!  NOT

Answer 7

Not until they're 18 and out of the house.  Otherwise either the boys or girls or all of them are g*y, then there are other problems.

Answer 8

Sounds like the parties that I have. Girls living room boys sleep in my bedroom. Mom checks on us and we all know that if something happends then theres no more parties. But we dont let the horniest people come eaither lol

Answer 9

The first step on the road to becomming a grandparent!

Answer 10

does it matter? I am assuming its because there the oposite s*x the idea is there going to have s*x or kiss or something, well if there ready for s*x it doesn't really matter as long as they took s*x ed and have had s*x talks

Answer 11

Everyone's first instinct is to say bad idea.  However, when oour gang went co-ed, we had a somple rule--if you are thinking about sharing your  sleeping bag with someone, don't do it at our sleep-overs/campouts.  We had earned the trust of the parents by the rules we had, and any 'extra' activities were just not allowed.  It was also pointed out  to the parents that if something "extra' was going to happen, it was going to happen whether they were there or not.  Like I said, we earned the trust of the parents by taking responsibility fo what our gang did, and what we would not allow.  It takes time. but yes, co-ed witout parents can be a positive thing, if you take responsibility.  BTW, there was only one parent in all those years that had anything negative to say about our sleepovers/campouts.  The parent said that her son could not go with us because we had our rules about -no mating season-.  She was actually afraid that  we were all g*y/L*****n, and she didnt want her son exposed to it.  Go fig.

Answer 12

If my daughter asked I would have two words to say 'NO WAY'

Answer 13

i don't think it's a bad idea.

if you don't let them do it, they'll want to do it more.

so let them live and learn.

if it ends up turning out badly they'll learn from the experience.

Answer 14

Allow it or your kids will start to contemplate killing you.

Answer 15

it sounds ok but can get out of control. i guess what i am tiring to say is long as everyone keeps their cloths on, and don't go to crazy it's ok.

Answer 16

Uh...no way.  As a future parent I would never, ever allow it.  Even with a parent there.

Answer 17

that's basically a science experiment.

"let's see how many girls will get pregnant"

seriously, it's a bad idea.

any party ALONE with guys is crazy.

not a bad thing, but crazy.

overnight? that's crazy x2 PLUS bad news.

Answer 18

Who cares if a kid sneeks over to the boys tent or vise versa...im sure theyre not going to have s*x in front of every body elce! they may be horny but no one wants to wake up a tent full of people and have them stare at you.

Answer 19

with no parents i dont think that will be a good idea but some sleep overs are incent and if it is then ask your paerents abtou it see if they have any ideas on what you can do

Answer 20

Its ok i guess. Just make sure that they dont want to get into anything and keep anything from happening!

Answer 21

ONLY if they are all FRIENDS...nothing more. When you're younger, it was okay because everyone was in 3rd or 4th grade and no one really had to worry about s*x. Now that we are older we tend to hang around all the wrong people and get influenced by s*x and drugs. You could try it if you want to but once a boy and a girl like each other in that group than, they are not afraid to try new things that night.

Answer 22

no, dont let them do that. they will do something that they might regret in the future.

Answer 23

Just asking for trouble if you ask me.

Answer 24

I think that you are just asking for trouble!! At our church we had a co-sleep over and the teams where suppose to sleep in there own tent...well that would mean that the teams of both girls and guys would be sleeping together and us girls talked the adults out of it. That sound backwards, but it is true. The only differance is that all of us there where virgins(from what I gather) and is was a church youth group kinda of thing!

Answer 25

JUST AS LONG AS THEIR IS NO SEXUAL MISBEHAVIOR I DON'T CARE.

Answer 26

suspiciously S****y... it'll be a miracle if anyone gets out of there without getting knocked up.

Answer 27

Depends on the kids.

Answer 28

Intersex parties, yes. Maybe not sleepovers, depends how much I trusted my kids.

Answer 29

Omg. I wouldn't let them do that because do you know why?

They will have s*x! They will be so horny, and wants to have s*x! They will do it!!!!

No way!!!!!

Answer 30

you have got to be joking yourself when you ask yourself this question. the plan answer is no, even if they say mommy dearest i promise i wont do anything and then they go and put that puppy face on it is just stupid. if you look at how many kids are getting pregnant in high school and now in jr. high without their parents knowning that they are sexually active what do you think that will happen when you have a sleepover and your parents do know that, would you want your daughter or son to be that girl in school that is pregnant or that guy that got her laid, i dont think so and then if you add the fact that stds are a big thing in the U.S.A right now, i mean every 5 in 10 people have some type of STD i dont think that that would be any where close to a good idea.