What do you think about it =/

Question

Could you forgive someone who called your house cussing, screaming, and threatening you and your family while they were drunk? but after that when they were sober they would apologize and say they'd never do it again, but after a month or so get drunk again and do the same thing..would someone that really cares about you do that?

Answer 1

no. someone who cared about you wouldnt do that. i suggest next time that happens you call the police espcially if he is threatening you and your family. he may just do that now, but if you dont stop it he'll get worse and myabe even act out his violence.  

Answer 2

I would forgive them, but just because someone apologizes doesn't mean that you should continually open yourself up to be treated like that. Forgive them and move on with that person. No need to keep putting yourself through it. Eventually you become an enabler to the actions.  

Answer 3

if that happened to me from a person that i really care about and vice verse, the only thought that would come up to my mind is that he/she was playing with me in reality.  he/she may be pretending to like you and stuff, but they really dont.  when a person is drunk, they tend to think more about the person they dont really care about.

Answer 4

if they do it again. record it with video camera. then turn off your v.c. and knock them out.

Answer 5

if this was a person thati cared about or was of importance to my family then yes I would forgive them then find a way to get to the root of the problem between us. and deal with it or cut the relationship off, so that this does not contiue.  

Answer 6

No they are not a caring loving person and are not really sorry and will do it again.  Get them out of your life NOW!!, before it turns violent.