What do you think about my co-worker!?

Question

My co-worker and I sit very close together in an office. I have been at this job over a year now. I have been very nice to her she is older than I however I am not that young either. The problem is; at times she is very nice she brings me small gifts at different times of the year. On the other hand, she has done very mean things like replacing my office chair with her chair. The first time she did that, I let her just keep it and I took the old one then another employee left and I asked for her chair and got it then a week later, my co worker was sitting in it. She also says mean things when I have difficult problem or have a hectic day. My co-worker also tells things on me that she overhears in the office while speaking to my boss "Small Office" she tells them to the other employee's and she never tell anything about herself. I don't even know where she lives. One time, she had a friend of hers call me that works for another agency and tell me that I should apply where she works? Anyone have any thoughts!

Answer 1

she shouldn't be anyone whos opinion bothers you, definatly politely decline her gifts and if you do get the chance apply for a job out of there.

Answer 2

she sounds nosy and like a trouble maker. i have worked with people like that. no matter what they do they make sure they tell the boss on all the other people. f  ckin c  nts  

Answer 3

dont mix personal life with work, sounds like you cant trust her....keep your your distance

Answer 4

Sounds like a nightmare, keep away from her. She's not very nice. Give her her gifts back.

Answer 5

she is fair enough,

Answer 6

She loves small talk and is a small minded person. Don't stoop down to her level. Karma comes back around ten fold, remember that!

Answer 7

She sounds like an aunt of mine. She'll give you great gifts, but then turn around and act like a you know what, especially behind your back.

I can't quite figure out that type of personality. My only guess is that they give the gifts and whatnot to try to make people like them, because they ar otherwise unlikable.

Any chance you can be moved away from that woman?

Answer 8

I agree with the girl sticking out her tongue and giving the peace sign but in a different way. I have family that likes to act that way. It probably has nothing to do with you, but something that happens outside of work. but you should talk to your co-worker  

Answer 9

omg this is strange! she sounds sly-i wouldn't trust her! you cld ask to be moved away from her? On the other hand she could be nice as she's bought you gifts! God I'm confused! Why not try to get to know her better?Invite her on a girls nite out- If you gotta work so close maybe the best thing is to try to get along and ignore her childish behavior!hope this helps

Answer 10

i think she's a jeliouse, tatletail, *****. and you should go take back your chair.

Answer 11

I think you should tell her exactly what you told us. that she is rude and you do not like it

Answer 12

She is Just......Stupid And 100% RUDE!!. Best thing to do is to ignore her..or take your chair back whenever she steals it again.If i was in your place i wouldnt stay quiet for long id speak whats on my mind and i think you should do XD

Answer 13

Do something to get her back,just to let her know your not takeing any S#$% of her.I think shes jelous of you in some way,just do your job best as you can,and give her no ammo to fire at you.