What do you think about this.. im a 15 year old virgin

Question

my mum keeps giving me "the talk" i have a bf but i dont plan on becoming sexually active.. any ideas

Answer 1

tell her i havent had s*x yet and im not going to any time soon.

Answer 2

That is a good idea to not be sexually active. I'm proud. I'm 15 years old too and I'm still a virgin. Tell your mom what you just told us. You don't plan on being sexually active. That should calm her down. Hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 3

your mom is talking to you about s*x because she wants you to know about it and know how to protect your self when you do decide to hav s*x.

She isn't rushing you or anything if thats what you think and being 15 and a virgin is perfectly fine. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders.

When you are ready to have s*x then thats when you do it and you could always ask your mom if you have any questions or concerns about it.

Answer 4

Good for you!

Keep listening to your mom.

These talks are good.

Don't let the guy convince you to do something you don't wanna do.

Answer 5

You are amongst the other large percentage of 15 year old virgins like me. There is nothing to think about. Your mom just wants to give you a heads up because some girls who are uneducated about this topic can do something that they might regret.

Answer 6

Its great that your mom is talking to u about it, its better to be aware. But i mean if youre not ready to have s*x then ur not ready. And there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. i dont care what people. its your choice and its all up to you. Not up to anyone else but yourself.

Stay safe!

Answer 7

I think you mom is just trying to give you the heads up, and making sure you know the things you should know. I am also 15 and im a virgin, and im proud of it. I dont think your mom is telling you to go have s*x, i just think she is giving you the facts..  

Answer 8

sit down and tell her look i'm not planning on having s*x. and i'm soo happy that you take the time to give me the talk. but honestly mom you dont have to worry.=].

and good job on knowing what you want=]

Answer 9

Just sit through and tell her that

Answer 10

tell her mom .  when i have s*x ill let you know ..

Answer 11

tell her to leave you alone and that you are not plainning on having s*x for a while.

Answer 12

Be open with her. Tell her you appreciate that she is looking out for you but you have no intention of having s*x just yet!

And well done you! Far too many young people rush into having s*x. I'm 25 and have only slept with two people, but I still wish I'd waited until I met my current boyfriend. We have been together 6 years and I was his first. I just wish he had been mine.

As long as you're honest with your mum and give her no reason not to trust you she should back off a bit. Maybe you have some questions you could ask her to show her you're responsible?

Answer 13

If you want your mom to stop giving you

the "talk" then just tell her that you don't

plan on having s*x for a very long time

and that she doesn't have to worry.

She is only looking out for you though.

By giving you the "talk" she is helping you

learn that if you are sexually active there

are risks like STD's and other things that

can harm your body and ruin your life.

But just be open with her and tell her straight up

that your not having s*x and not planning to at

the moment in time.

~meredith~

Answer 14

Your mother is just doing her job as a mother and trying to protect you.  She knows how it is to be a teenager and be with someone you care about or "love" and that even if you don't plan on doing it, anything can happen.

She just wants to make sure you stay safe from STDs, from getting your heartbroken and from her becoming a grandmother this early.

To get her to back down a little, just keep reassuring her that you don't plan on having s*x and don't do anything that would make her not trust you.  Also let her know that you will make sure you come to her if you decide you want to (so you can get on BC and protect yourself) or you have any questions or problems with it.

Answer 15

Just tell your mom that you appreciate the advice and talks she's giving you, but you don't plan anytime soon to become sexually active. Of course being a mother she'll still worry about it, but if you sit down with her and tell her in an adult way, I'm sure she'll realize you're responsible.