As time went by and I concentrated on what Penny said about things in her life, I thought she needed backbone, was lazy, in denial, a people pleas-er, and should confront people. Penny has created, added to, or let situations escalate to a point that made her seem like the type of person who allowed others to say or do things to her without her doing anything about it. She also seem to be laid back and easily lead especially by those in authority in the church and two of her family members. She seems to want to please them with her unjustifiable respectful mannerism and her blind state toward them. Penny has (manipulated) used these two situations to her advantage in enabling her laziness and made her self an enabler for both. I also had a lingering thought of what type of person could she be to accept my kindness and goodness without wanting to surrender her laziness? She never wanted to cook for me. I noticed that she would hold back information about what she said/didn't say, did or didn't do when she talked to me that made me think the others' were at fault, but after careful deliberation I saw she had contributed to what had occurred. Penny is the type of person, for the most part, who will not listen to advice. She had shared with me that others' who she shared things with had told her what needed to be done in those situations and still she didn't do what was told her. Why is Penny sharing her personal circumstances without applying what I and others are saying about them? and only accepting what will gain her what she wants out of them. Penny seems to recongize when she can get something from a person. What do you get out of this information about Penny and do you think she would be a good friend?
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