What do you think about this?

Question

Ok, so I dated this guy in middle school. (we were 14, now we're 27-28) He was SUCH a sweetheart, carried my books, called me from payphones during the weekend, walked me home after school, etc. We were best friends also. His family moved away & we never saw eachother again. I found him on MySpace (of course), and we wrote to eachother a couple of times. I'm going through a divorce, but I didn't want to tell him TOO much, so I just said I was married, since I wanted to be honest. He then wrote...

"Well it is nice to hear from you. Same hear...no kids, thank God. And single. Thank you for mentioning that you are married. Since this is the case, I am sure you were just saying hi."

I don't want to read too much into this...but what do you think?...

Answer 1

It seems like you're waxing nostalgic over how good things used to be in your youth: young, simple, pure love, etc. versus your reality: a sad heartbreaking divorce and wondering if things could ever be like they were.

But you need to think realistically here: You're going through a divorce and is contacting your old flame/possibly meeting up really going to benefit you in the long run? Or turn out to your liking?

If the answer is yes, then by all means contact him and pursue it. You never know but keep in mind, often times memories are better left as such-memories.

Answer 2

You must mention about your family and that u r getting divorce

u said u were truth but u r not 100 percent truth in saying about your divorce

rest is on ur's

Answer 3

just tell him how you feel, if there aren't any feelings or if there are hen by any means organzie a get together with him.

best of luck

Answer 4

I think that you have found a wonderful opportunity!  As a guy, I can tell you that he is interested in you.  When he says "I am sure you were just saying hi", he is waiting to hear whether or not you were looking for something more.

If I were you, I would follow your heart and give it a shot!  It sounds like you both had a great time together!  It's always better to try and have it not work out than to wonder the rest of your life what could have been =)

Answer 5

i think...

tht this isnt a question?

ok i think tlk to him ?

idk wht u want to know

Answer 6

i think i should go to sleep now:)

oh and i also think that is very interesting:|

Answer 7

Sounds like he wanted to start something.

but um...were...you... just saying hi? or were you hoping it would lead to something again?

Then again I'm a chick too so I might be reading too much into it as well lol