What do you think he is after-love,s*x or money?

Question

I met a guy 4 years ago.We had a relationship for about 3 months and i dumped him coz i understood he used me to forget his ex.Even i made a clean break he didnt leave me alone and keep getting in touch with me and pursue me all those 3 years on and off.He knew i have money and properties left from my parents.A year ago he started asking me to give him a second chance claiming he has changed and understood he loves me deep down and i am the one for him.months later i decided to give him another chance.Everything was fine he was lovely and not longer he proposed.Things looked perfect untill one day he called me and called off the engagement and asked to break up.One month i didnt hear from him and after that month he started again to pursue me .Later on he involved ina relatonship but that didnt stoped him to email me,text me and ask to see me.My condition was to break up first with the other girl and he did.I still cant understand does he loves me or he is only after s*x or money.

Answer 1

Don't marry this loser. You deserve better. He souds immature, like he doesn't really know what he wants and if you marry him he will cheat on you. It sounds as if he only wants you in between flings with other girls. He knows you will always take him back - you always have. Drop this loser and find someone who is steady and reliable and who will love only you.

Answer 2

He's a loser and will never change. Don't think that he is an adult because he is 29. Some guys cannot make a commitment about anyone or anything. I would venture to say that he also moves from job to job and never finished school.

He's a type. Dump him and don't fall for his lies or your life will be miserable. He cannot stay true to you now, so he never will.

When he calls or e-mails you, tell him you are going with somebody else now and have moved on.

Answer 3

Again, it is hard to say ....BUT, why not all 3 and having nothing to do with 'Love' or how you feel ~ about him, his behaviour or you two as a couple.

I'd say that it is best that you have 'nothing' to do with him until you really KNOW just what you feel about him and his behaviour.

Putting distance between you and your problems increases the perspectives you have and need.

Good luck (and don't buy any tickets for his schemes).

Sash.

Answer 4

It's hard to say what this guy is after. It sounds like he doesn't know either. The fact that you have money seems to appeal to him, but what concerns me more is the fact that he is not consistent in the relationship. He has hurt you before and he may do it again. It seems like you are his "fall back girl" that he runs to when he gets lonely or wants to get out of another relationship. Try taking some time apart. You may find that you don't even miss him. And this will show his true colors. If he truly is committed to you,  he will stick around.

Good luck.