What do you think i should do

Question

im sure this is gonna seem dumb and everything but, me and this guy have been talking since like march. we dated briefly but i broke up with him because i was really stressed out with things at home and stuff & i wasnt comfortable telling him. however we started talking again and i pretty much trust him with everything, and tell him just as much as i tell my best friend. well anyway, lol. hes said that hes in love with me and everything, which i was very hesitant to even believe because we're 15 & 16 we're not exactly dating but you get the idea. but hes also talked to this other girl, and he said the only reason was because we stopped talking for that time. but its happened more than once, and he basically blames it on me.we fight a lot also, but we always make up. usually id be long gone, but idk something about him, no matter what he does i just cant imagine going long without talking to him. any advice ?

Answer 1

One of my good friends has this same exact problem.

I say, be cautious, because she told him everything about her && now she regrets it, because he's a jerk.

so just be friends. But be careful what you tell him.

Answer 2

Stay friends

Answer 3

Stay friends for now and when you get older see if you still have love feelings for each other.

Answer 4

you seem to be a prety intelligent girle a your age to ask for guidance from other people.

first remember that at your age it is difficult for some people to control their sexual feelings so always remember that and make sure you never get to a situation where you might end up having s*x because you are young and may not be able to control yourself.

I talk about s*x here because relationships are about s*x for alot of people,you should keep a distance from those things because you may end-up getting pregnant,you exually transmitted diseas or may simply be very disappointed and have a very bad experience of relationships.

so you can have a friend who you like but not very closev to have entimate relationship at your age.

Answer 5

just be friends with him

Answer 6

i've been through alot of relationship like that, i say you should just forget him if he wannts to blame everything on you then he's not worth your time!! This might not be the response you were hoping for but think about it do you really want to be around a guy put you down constantly??

Answer 7

You should forget about him my best friend had this same problem expect the girl he was talking to was me but it was messed up because we were best  friends like me and her. The always broke up  so many times she finally realized that she should move on she did she does not want him anymore he wanted her still but he moved on.Another thing is your really not to young to love anyone can.Have fun don't be in a rush to grow up and worry about having someone to love the rest of your life.That day will come.

Answer 8

i agree with the others...just be friends right now

Answer 9

you shouldn't give him your time of day. you're too young to be in love right now, trust me i've been there. you shouldn't bother with guys right now, stay with your friends, they are the most important. cause if this guy dumps you, they are the ones that are going to be there.

Answer 10

My best friend always told me: "it's not gona get any prettier than it is now" ~ when I'd ask her about relationship conflicts. You are right, you guys are young and if he's already trying to make you feel guilty and blame you it's not worth it. I'm sure you've heard it before or seen it before, but the beggining of a relationship is supposed to be the nicest period - the time when you're both forgiving and get along perfectly. It's not gona get any better from now on. If he's already throwing around the "inlove" excuse he obviously doesn't know what it means. Him talking to another girl when you are not together is not wrong, it's normal. But him blaming it on you if it keeps happening, that's not normal. Don't worry about him. When you feel like talking to him, call your best friend instead. You'll find someone who's able to appreciate you.

Answer 11

if this boy is a stalker(like the one who told me he was in love with me and im 13 he follows me and all tht c**p) leve him!!! but if you love him back giv it a chance. but if he ignores you and fights with you alot and flirts with other girls dont try him

Answer 12

Take your time and enjoy the rest of your childhood and leave stressing out over emotional problems for later , when you'll be more mature to deal with them anyway. Just be a good friend to this boy and tell him as much, that you like him for a trusted friend, which is already a component of the relationship. Kids who get into heavy stuff with the opposite s*x are emotionally drained by the time they're fully grown up. Quit being jealous when he talks to other girls and tell him from now on we're just good old pals. If you're intended for each other, that can emerge in the years to come, but not while you two are fighting other people out of each other's lives.