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What do you think makes a good sister ? Should i break contact with my brother ? ( I'm 15 )

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I'm a 15 year old girl with a 20 year old brother ( he's my only sibling )

I can't help feeling like i've been a bad sister to him.

He's always been nice to me and since the day i was born he's been there for me throughout everything. Basically, he's the best brother anyone could have. Sometimes i think that he shouldn't be my brother because he deserves so much better. My mum should have had another child after me. For his sake. He makes so much effort to get on with me. He tells me he loves me, but i don't see how he can. I often wonder whether he just puts up with me because i'm his sister and there's nothing he can do/say to change that, but then why would he make so much effort with me ? I hate myself for the way i've treated him. He's moving out soon ( his girlfriend's pregnant ) and i'm going to miss him so much. He said that we're still going to see each-other all the time etc but i've been thinking, when he moves out, should i break contact with him and let him lead his own life ? Would that make him happy ? I would ask him, but i know what he'll say. He'll say i'm being silly and that he loves me, but i can't help thinking he's just saying that out of politeness

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  1. NO,YOU SHOULD  NOT  BREAK

    CONTACT WITH YOUR BROTHER.


  2. No!

    He loves you.

    You love him.

    Leave it at that.

    Keep contact.

    Or you'll regret it.

  3. Don't break contact with him. Just keep having deep and meaningful conversations with him; be a shoulder for him to lean on, and enjoy your time with him. I don't see how anything else would make him happy.

    http://www.meant4more.com/

  4. Its pretty impossible to break contact with him. Family events, holidays etc... You ARE being silly.  

  5. if he's made an effort to be close with your your WHOLE life, i don't think he woud just stop now. You should be happy your brother wants to spend time with your i'm 15, and i have a 13 year old brother, who could care less what happens to me, and a 24 year old brother that doesn't even bother to tell me happy birthday, much less call me. so be happy, your brother loves you and wants to spend time with you

  6. You're being silly, he loves you :)

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