What do you think? married one week ago and now...?

Question

I got married a week ago, we have a son, his friends as witness, rings I had, normal clothes, nothing else. Had a good week . He works 20 hours and does sleep ins. last night we fell out he is a guy that loves his own space, he goes off on walks on his own, last night he was in a mood, left me on my own and took son out for a walk for an hour and didn't ask me to come, i had mentioned going out together with son he didn't want to. He then when come back went to bed for an hour then when he got up and i wanted to talk he went out smoking pot in his car! Today he left at 1 and said he had work but then rang me on blocked number (which is usually flat he still has on) and says he's at work !! ay 8pm. He then tells me his two phone chargers don't work so cant contact ,me or him!! I feel like a fool ...friday night he cant be comtacted no evidence at work im at home atching kids he could be doing anything....what would you think ...one week into marriage!

Answer 1

I think he regrets getting married.  Next thing you know is,  he will ask for a divorce before the year is over.

Answer 2

You shouldnt have married him if he did that before and knowing he smokes pot... Maybe go to marriage counceling.  

Answer 3

u- goofed!

Answer 4

oh-oh!

Answer 5

He must not have been ready to get married.  

Answer 6

Don't  jump to conclusions..  people  often take time to settle down once married .. You may  find that it takes weeks before he settles  so just hang  in there..  

Answer 7

I think he is very shady and is definitely upto something... Be careful and try to play detective and get to the bottom of it before it goes on any further.  

Answer 8

Sounds like the honeymoon is over before it even got started...  

Answer 9

bad signs ofthis YOU SAW BEFOREHAND...

1.  works part time.

2. smoking pot.

3.  lying

you got married to the wrong man.  Annulment is the best move, then move out and never look back.

Answer 10

You two need to get together and establish the boundaries of the relationship.  Discuss your expectations for each other, arrive at compromises and get these issues settled right away.

At the moment, it sounds like he's the one making all the rules for both of you (basically, he continues to live the life that only he wants--that of a selfish, insensitive single person), and no one else could be happy in a situation like that.

Answer 11

I AM SURE HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN LIKE THIS. U HAVE A CHILD FOR HIM WHY DO U THINK THAT MARRIAGE WOULD CHANGE HIM AT LEAST HE TAKES THE CHILD. WHAT DO U EXPECT FROM SOMEONE WHO SMOKES POT. WOMEN ALWAYS WANT MEN TO CHANGE. WHY DO U NEED TO CHECK U ON HIM U ALREADY KNOW THAT HE IS LYING HAVE HIM TRAILED TO PROOVE TO CATCH HIM DOING WHATEVER IT IS THAT U THINK HE MIGHT. OR LEAVE THE MAN ALONE AND GIVE HIM HIS SPACE.

Answer 12

POO, YOU ARE either, FOOOOL POO. or POO FOOOOL. but you are a FOOOOL & I would bet you any thing, you are the one who talk

that guy in to married you so you get what you ask for.

How long did you lives with that guy? for get about the child you both have I mean LIVING with him? I do not think, and I am sure, you know NOTHING @ all about this guy & even now you do not know him neither so what can I tell you? NOTHING @ ALL, but you get what you

bought. I would like to BET you any thing that this guy is FUNNY! I mean he is going with another MAN!. I bet you he is a she man or a girlie man. When you prove me correct, you can send me my consultant fee. ( SMILE ) but I am not joking that is what is going on so

GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR NEXT MOVE, and there is  pont inted in

that line the principle word in the sentence is MOVE

Answer 13

chalk this one up to a bad expirence, learn from it and get out. sorry sounds like u didnt know him as well as you thought

Answer 14

I think the honeymoon's over.

Answer 15

I tried to make sense of your story, however I just couldn't.

Im guessing your upset with some behavior of his. Was he not like this before you got married? Maybe you should communicate with your husband about your concerns instead of a bunch of strangers.