What do you think my chances are this month? I don't even know what to do! I need advice to keep me going!

Question

So my LMP was July 13-17 I ovulated around the 29th I got my 1st pos ovulation result the 28 and the last the 1st. My OB/GYN told us to have s*x everyday before during and after the days of positive ovulation tests because his sperm levels weren't low (the doctor did some kind of blood tests on him?), any way so we did. We had s*x every day from cycle day 7-21. I now am in cycle day 24. I have any where from a 28-32 day cycle but seeing as how I don't know when for sure I was most fertile it makes figuring out how many DPO I am hard.. I'm any where from 7-5.

https://www/mymonthlycycles.com said that my most fertile days were the 30 & 31. Do you think we have a good chance of becoming pregnant again since we had s*x often during my fertile days, I even made sure that I propped up on a pillow and didn't get up for a while. I had some very mild cramps/nagging pains on the 3-5th and lite lite lite spotting on the 4th or 5th.

My last pregnancy ended in miscarriage. I'm scared that it will take a long time for me to get pregnant again because I got pregnant the first month I tried last time.

When I tested and was pregnant I unknowingly waited until 23DPO so I don't know if I can test early. My next period should be around the 13-15 so I am going to test on the 14th if she doesn't show up by then.

Thanks for any answers that arent smart comments!

Answer 1

You need to relax a little. Sometimes when you are trying so hard it is too much and you can't conceive. If you don't get pregnant this month just relax and take things a little slower. Just plot your fertile days and be sure to have relations then, but don't stress out over it.

I remember being right where you are 30 years ago. If I knew now what I know today I wouldn't have forced the pregnancy. My second child came along much easier without any intervention, or stress, and it was much, much better, for all of us.  

Answer 2

Im not sure but, Sounds like you have a good chance of being pregnant..Good luck and i hope everything goes well!

Answer 3

If you got your last +OPK on 1st August, you ovulated on 2nd August. For sure. Ok, maybe on 3rd, but not sooner.

I would see if you can wait until 16th before testing, and yes, I know this will drive you totally nuts! But that would be 14dpo and it's better to hold off than have to deal with daily BFNs. I'm sure many other answers will tell you the same thing; the depression is too much :)

Anyway, best of luck with your 2WW!

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Answer 4

i think that  you might be but u should wait and test again maybe in a week. im in a predicament of wanting to know myself so i kknow how hard it is, but just wait and test around the 14th like you said

Answer 5

well it sounds to me that you can be pregnant this time around so congrats if you are and baby dust if you dont conceive