What do you think of THIS!!!!????

Question

My ex-bf is weird. We dated for a few months, almost 2 years ago. It was a really sweet and innocent relationship, no s*x, cuz he knew I wanna save s*x for marriage. He's now 27 & I'm 22. He was the one to end the relationship. But he still contacts me on msn, every now & then. Two months ago he said hi to me on msn. He asked me what was new, then he told me that he bought a condo, ( he was living w/ his parents before). And he said that I should "come visit him once he moves in". I’ve been thinking about him more since he messaged me, so last week I decided just to say a quick hi to him on msn. I said hi on msn, but he NEVER responded. I don't care, I'm NOT asking why he ignored me. Neways, today I went on msn and HE said hi to me. He only asked a few questions, I didn’t respond right away and gave short answers. Then I told him I had to go. Why did he say hi to me this time? My question is? Why is he doing all this & why did he say hi to me this time on msn???

Answer 1

I think he was just busy when YOU said hi to him. Or maybe he's playing "hard-to-get" with you.. <3

But from what I hear right now, he wants you so bad.

Answer 2

It's common for people to leave their IM signed in and not be there - I do all the time.  And then when he did get your message, you could of been signed off.  Don't over analyze it.  Nothing wrong with saying hello and chatting with some you knew and had a relationship with.

Answer 3

well .. when you messaged him last, he could have been away from his computer.. maybe he just didnt get the message and he was responding back to your Hi.. dont over think things..

if your really all that torn up about it. give him a call ask him if he wants to meet up or hang out.  Tell him youd love to see his new place.

relax though. dont get all worked up about nonsense..  

Answer 4

You know, some people leave their MSN signed in - or they aren't actually at the computer. So perhaps the time he didn't respond, he wasn't actually there.

You ask why is he "doing all this?" and to me it doesn't really seem like he's doing a lot other than being friendly to you, an ex girlfriend.  

Answer 5

It doesn't sound like he's doing anything at all.

Answer 6

He may be fishing and you may be one of many.  If you are saving yourself for marriage, WAY TO GO!  Just don't go to his apartment, no good can come of it.

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