What do you think of a 22 year old and a 32 year old datin?

Question

I am 22 going on 23. I have been working and have been independent since i was a teen. I have a son and a dead daughter. The males my age are not on my level all they want is money s*x and drugs. i neede a man not a boy some one whom will help me out with myson finacailly stable and have there own house and car like i do. I work im in college i have a house a car and a son i am tired of young men living off me and not doing anything for me and my son so i have been talking to a 32 year old whom is on my level but do you think theres something wrong do you think it will work i do cause im so into him mentally spirtually physically and finacial and hes grat with kids

Answer 1

I think it's fine. As long as you trust each other and you have a future....there's nothing wrong. It's only a 10 year age gap, and you're both adults.

Answer 2

Yeah, boys my age...*****, you're not much better than them. You're just at the age where you think you're better and want to act fresh, but at the same time stay young. You'll know what I mean when you grow up.

But, yeah, 22 and 32 is not bad...

Answer 3

yes if you love him and he loves you. relashionships thrive off of love.

Answer 4

I don't think you qualify for Teen and p*****n or adolescent.

I think you should date someone younger, but love sees no age I guess.

Answer 5

I think it will be fine. I once knew a couple who were like 23 years apart or something. My parents are 9 years apart, so go for it

Answer 6

Go for it, girl. I see nothing wrong with it, from what you have said, you are making something of yourself and your life, and you want someone who is on that same level as you, and if that person happens to be older, then so be it! :)

Answer 7

its not that wrong now your older..

but i think of it thiss way...

when you were being born...

he were 10

Answer 8

I think thats okay. As long as you really like him and he's good to your kids.

Answer 9

Its fine. You are an adult now, I know lots of adults that are married to people 10 years older than they are.

Answer 10

not a huge deal. you cant get in trouble for it so who really cares.

Answer 11

My hubby and I are 10 yrs apart. I really dont see any problem with it. The best thing I like is that he is a lot more mature than younger men.

Answer 12

I don't mind as long as u are happy ,

My mum is 39 and dating a 57 year old ......now that is sick

Answer 13

I really admire you 'cuz I'm 21 and I own nothing but myself..

Age doesn't matter as long as the person gives love, has estability and values.  If you feel he's the right person then go for it.  Rem your son comes first, so let him know that u need someone to care for ur son too.

Maybe he'll agree with u.

Good luck!  :)

Answer 14

it's ok nothing wrong with 10 years in age different it's more than that i got issues with.

Answer 15

You're both consenting adults... if you love each other, then what's the problem?

Answer 16

I THINK THATS PERFECTLY FINE CAUSE YOU BOTH ARE GROWN N HAPPY, Y WAIT AROUND FOR SOMEONE YOUR AGE WHEN THERE IS SOMEBODY RITE THERE IN FORNT OF YOUR FACE, CAUSE I THINK WEN YOUR OVER 21 AGE DOSENT MATTA CAUSE LIFE IS SHORT Y NOT!!! AS LONG AS HE MAKES U HAPPY