What do you think of a lady of uncertain age living in a leaky caravan with a man who wont work?

Question

She feeds him clothes him gives him money and a roof over his head. She has several jobs and pays for everything,because she is terrified he will leave her and she has to pay him for any

sexual favours. He has told her he will never marry her, and she thinks she can change his mind.

Is there a name for people like that? would it come under a mental illness, she is very short of money yet she wont throw this man out.

Yet with everyone else she is very bad tempered

and nasty not to mention spiteful, what do you think is wrong with her, as her sister is worried as people are laughing behind her back.

Answer 1

I think no one is in any position to judge her choices. Maybe she has a reason for doing this, maybe she is just terrified of being alone. Some people do crazy things because they are afraid to be alone.

She may be bad tempered because she is frustrated. Or simply uneducated. Still, I feel a little sorry for her.

Answer 2

She must love s*x a lot to put up with him and give him money, I think she is a fool and he is a

Gigolo.

Imagine several jobs to pay to keep a man, he could at least fix her leaky roof, maybe she thinks she cant get anyone else to stay in her leaky caravan.

Good and interesting question.

Answer 3

There is no accounting for taste,good or bad.Perhaps she's in love again or perhaps she has discovered something about herself that wasn't apparent in earlier years.

Answer 4

She is madly in love with this gentleman. No wonder people say 'Love is blind'.

Answer 5

Well I am known for speaking my mind so here goes, the Lady is a bloody fool for been used by the lazy b*****d she keeps, I have heard many tails of women who bow down to the likes of this life's dead beat reading what you have written is that person you? If so you deserve more respect from that dead leg, something similar happened to my daughter until she finally seen sense, I would suggest a little chat if the person is your friend but the last thing she wants is for people taking the P------ out of her.Again, if it is you & I think it is you deserve better than that.

Answer 6

I suspect the woman is seriously disturbed emotionally and has absolutely no self respect. The man is taking advantage of her vulnerabilities.

On the other side of this, it is hard to believe he'd stay with her in a leaky caravan unless he is at the same social level as she. Thus they both have problems in the mental department.  

Answer 7

this guy is a sorry excuse for a man and the woman don't sound too great either.

I'm not saying it is anyone fault especially the womans, if you know them try and help.

whoop the guys *** or something.

sorry did not realise you were a woman, get somebody to whup his *** instead

Answer 8

This Lady Needs Help she obviously has terrribly low self esteem if she lets this sort of Abuse happen

Answer 9

Her insecurities condition and delusions that inevitably have creeped in, has degenerated to an extent that is manifestly apparent!

The 'loose arrangement relationship', no doubt could self-destruct at any time!

He, the male is truly a pitiful wimp who cowers and flinshes, relinquishing any responsibility!

Any physical and psychological  restoration cant occur until she acknowledges the disruptions in her own life!  

Answer 10

Well the symptoms of love have been compared to those of mental illness and madness...

Answer 11

I agree with Angel Eyes, she must be s*x mad.

Answer 12

its true love is blind and she obviously really likes this man?but she needs a big wake up call?