What do you think of adopting children instead of birthing your own ?

Question

What do you think of adopting children instead of birthing your own ?

Answer 1

i love it. my sister is adopted. and when i get married and want children...im going to adopt too

Answer 2

there are lots of children out there that need adopting and if you can give them a good home and feel its something you want to do then you should.

Answer 3

I think it is truely beautiful how open to adoption the people who responded to your question are.  It is true it doesn't make any difference if your children are adopted or your own natural children.  We all have seen an awesome family that may have one troubled child of there own.  This can happen to your own or an adopted child as well.  I have been a foster parent and I have both natural children and one adopted child.  Our child was in our home as a foster baby before we adopted her.  Even thought we were told that she may have mental problems at some point; we were devoted and happy to rescue her from a less that perfect situation.  The years have been very challenging and rewarding as well.  Nothing is perfect in this world but if you are determined to adopt I would suggest that you do it.  I thank God that we were there for our child and have brought more joy and love to her than she ever would have know otherwise.  Thank you for asking your question.

Answer 4

I think it is wonderful if the person adopting is satisfied with that.  I always wanted my own child and would not have been happy without having a baby but I think anyone who can do this is great and is doing a great thing for a child that they will adopt.  It is all about personal feelings toward this!!

Answer 5

Personally, I would adopt because why put another child into this world when there are so many out there that do need a good loving home. If I still wanted a biological child, sure, I'd have one, but I would also love to adopt as well. Kind of the whole Angelina Jolie theory maybe? Haha... but I wouldn't want that many!

Answer 6

I have two biological twins and three adopted children. It's whatever you wish.

***EDIT*** Just so you know, in response to your answer to my question, her first name is Tayla. May is the middle name.

Answer 7

I think its great cause there's alot of kids that need a home.Why have your own when you can get one with out the pain of having one.

Answer 8

If you are still able to have a baby, why not just have one? But some people like adopting because you do not need to go through the pain of pregnancy, or anything like sagging or gaining weight. It's really a personal preference, depending on what you want and what you are willing to do.

Answer 9

There are so many children who need to be adopted. I think it is great for people to consider this option. Please keep in mind, though, that many children who are waiting to be adopted need more patience and care in order to establish good attachment. They usually have been through a lot in their short lives. If you are willing to put in the effort though, the benefits will be great both to you and the child.

Answer 10

Personal preference.

Answer 11

well in all honesty i agree with both ways some were made to have children while others just can't stand the thought of having to go thur all that but to me both ways are the way to go i have four of my own i would also adopited if my husband would let me cause there are alot of children out there that need a good home and a good family

Answer 12

I wouldnt do that

Answer 13

I would think i would rather have my own children.

Answer 14

If one has trouble bringing children into the world, or if one simply chooses not to bring children into the world, adoption is a wonderful way to start a family.  My mother was adopted by my grandparents, who kept foster children until the early to mid 1970s, and I'm d**n proud that my mom has two sets of parents; one in Heaven (the people I called Grandma and Granddad are with the Lord now) and one on Earth.  Even if you have DNA children, adoption is a wonderful way to grow a family.

Answer 15

I think that's a good thing to do.

Answer 16

I think it's a win-win situation. These kids need families. There are too many people in the world anyways. Overpopulation is a huge problem that people don't pay attention to and it's disgusting how it really is going to ruin everything. Adopting a child is one of the best things that people can do to save our planet. (That's deep, I know, but very true).

Answer 17

As long as you are a good parent with lots of love to give, it doesn't matter; giving birth does not automatically make you a good parent ;)

Answer 18

That it is a wonderful thing.   My best friend dealt with infertility for years, ectopic pregnancies, hormone treatments...on and on.   They adopted thier daughter, and you would swear that she is their biological kid.

Whether to keep your figure, or you have that much love...as long as you know that that baby is YOURS, bless you.

Answer 19

it's a wonderful thing to do, and very much a personal decision.

Answer 20

I think either is a great way to go, only if you will fully love either child, and provide a good home.

Personally, giving birth to my daughter was one the best experiences in my life, and I wish all could have that experience.

But I also think its great to adopt and take in all of these poor unwanted children, its too bad more people couldn't use protection rather than making a mistake of getting pregnant then having to give away their child.

Answer 21

I think people should be able to choose how they form their families.  If people wish to have biological children, that's fine.  If they prefer to adopt, that's great, too.   Some families do both!

Answer 22

I think it is wonderful.  I would love to adopt one day, when my boys are a little older.

Answer 23

It depends on the situation?  Why do you want to adopt?  Why do you not want to give birth to your own?  Are you single or married?  Don't get me wrong.  I'm not against adoption but you haven't provided enough background into the situation to form an opinion.  If you're single, adoption can be a wonderful thing.  There are many children out there who need good homes.  If you're married, I think this is something you need to truly discuss with your partner.  How will they feel about having an adopted child versus a natural?  All of these are things you must weigh.

Answer 24

to maintain ur figure...

Answer 25

I think it's great because there are so many children out there who need families.

Blood (or genetics) is not what makes a family... love is.

Answer 26

There are so many children in this world who need a home and parents that are going to love them no matter what. I think adoption is a great option. LOL that rhymed.

Answer 27

I believe to adopt is a selfless act

something most humans are unable to comprehend.

Answer 28

I can't think of any good reason not to adopt!  I adopted my one and only beautiful daughter, Olivia, just over 3 years ago.  I couldn't be happier or love her any more had she been born to me.  She is the joy of my life.  There are so many children in need of loving homes.  If I were to have any more children, they would be adopted.  

Not flesh of my flesh

Or bone of my bone

Still, miraculously my own

Never forget

Not for a minute

You weren't born under my heart

But in it

Answer 29

I am all for adopting! I want to adopt older children. I will be adopting for various reasons, but the main one is that I want to turn around a kid's life, and by the time they have lived in foster homes/orghanages for 8-10 years, they have pretty much given up on getting adopted. I think that is so sad... I want to change their mindset.

Of course, to me honest, there are also more selfish reasons for adopting including:

1.) body/v****a will stay in shape

2.) able to choose s*x of baby (i don't want to get stuck with three boys!!)

3.) i know i will be getting a healthy baby... because you just never know when a mutiation in your genes could cause a lifetime of suffering.

4.) I refuse to take time off to have kids.

5.) ...I'm sure there are a lot more, but I cannot think of them right now.

Answer 30

I think it is a wonderful thing. But everyone wants a perfect newborn. Those are harder to come by. But there are tons of deserving children who are a little older, or some with problems. Either way, it is a good thing. Some people do both, adopt and have their own biological children.

Answer 31

i always wanted to adopt. i think that it is usch a gift to be able to help another child that is in need. i personally just had a baby but we are considering adopting our second in a couple years. it is an expensive process but its definitely a great think to do for someone else.