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What do you think of career women verse career men?

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What do you think of a woman who either has a high-priority career or is striving for such a career? Or what do you think of women in highly competitive high-end careers? (Lets say doctors, lawyers, professors, CEOs, etc.)

Do you think any differently of women in these careers than you do of the men who work in them? If so, why?

And also, do you think any differently of mothers in these careers than you do of fathers who work in them?

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  1. I think it's unfair that men who do this sort of thing don't get labeled "career men." They're just "men."

    Anyone with realistic ambitions has my props.


  2. that's great...I'm for house-husbands....and career driven woman.....more power to em' !

  3. I've met a lot of CEO's, and I didn't like any of them.  On my first day of work at a hotel, I recall, a guy asked for a recommendation for a restaurant, and I said, "to be honest, I moved to this city about three weeks ago so I'm not sure, but, let me grab someone who would know."  He says, "Sure, but let me tell you... I'm a CEO, and that's not a CEO way of looking at things!"  I smiled, nodded, and said, "good, because I've absolutely no desire to be a businessperson whatsoever."  He was absolutely shocked that someone would not want to be the big person at the top of the building with the huge desk and tons of cronies.

    I've met a lot of doctors and lawyers and professors who I liked, and lot whom I didn't, and their gender had absolutely nothing to do with my opinion of them.

    By nature, I find myself generally repulsed by overly-aggressive type-A personalities; I don't harbor any ills toward them and fully repsect the role that they play in society, but it is not my personality and it never will be.  I am largely incompatible with people who have this sort of personality, from what my life's experiences have taught me... I'm EXTREMELY mellow, even-handed and more consumed with the human condition than how diversified my protfolio is.

    I think no more or less of someone's career when they're a mother or father, either.

  4. I prefer a women in some areas and others I could care less but, men do seem to be more about the pay then the person.

  5. I don't look at men or women differently - I think they should be proud of what they accomplish.

  6. No difference, we have equal opportunity now and have done for some time so most take it as a given that there are women in these positions and don't give it a second thought.

    Rio, there is no term "career men" because men generally do not have the choice between having babies and supporting babies. If we don not have a career we are nothing.

  7. no difference. Just people doing jobs. Gender doesn't really cross my mind in any of these situations.

  8. I respect a 'career woman' just as much as a 'career man'.

  9. I think it's great that she is so ambitious and hard-working.

    Same for men. It takes a lot of hard work and a lot of money to get these achievements, but it shows perseverance that they succeeded.

  10. As long as their career doesn't come at the expense of their personality... I am all for women being lawyers and what not as long as they remain sweet, warm, and friendly!...

  11. That there is a difference is evidenced by this question, there shouldn't be, but there is.

    I'm only active in one profession, and it has a larger female presence than most others. In terms of work ability and dedication I'd say there is no difference at all, but the common separations in society still filter through at times.

  12. No differences. To each of our's own commitments.

  13. I tend to respect women in these types of careers more than equivalent men, because I realize the women had to be twice as good and climb over a lot more obstacles than the men to get where they are.

  14. Oh god! If they have the degrees to back it up then why should it be a female, male issue? Wow, we all work we all pay our dues. Why does it always have to be a gender issue; why can't it be, how good they are doing their job.

  15. I have a great deal of respect for talented women in the professions. I don't like when women do distracting things with their femininity, like attracting undue attention and assuming the attitude that women are always irresistible to men.

  16. Makes no difference to me.

  17. When I was practicing law, many women were entering the field. That was fine. Many women ascended to Judicial positions as well. What I noticed was the the female judges were BETTER. Not just more respectful, sensitive, or other things you might expect as feminine. They were just plain flat-out SMARTER.

    Women should run the world, and let us guys stay home and keep house for you.

  18. no.  not that i've noticed.

  19. The only thing I think of with anyone, male or female, father or mother, in one of these careers is that they went to school, studied long and hard to achieve and excel in these professions.  It tells me they are probably competitive and driven, and having ambition far beyond mine..  But it tells me nothing about their moral character or their personality.

    But with women in these professions, I EXPECT something in addition.  Despite all rhetoric about equality, I expect women who excel in these professions to fall back into that age-old thinking and want a man earning much more than she does.

  20. they are very rigid...!!

  21. I see career women as empowered peoples

  22. I think that if they have the focus and ambition they should go for it .Who are we to judge?

  23. When they are doing their job...do you see your list? The are all people in paid leadership positions.  If they lack morals and common sense there will be trouble and with that build their own bad reputation.  Then they conveniently want everyone to shut up and go blind per say so they continue on.  Assuming position, as in abuse of title will never control notice within people even if the person wishes that to happen mistakes are more so negative habits being pampered.   That only causes yet another image to the public who is affected or infected.   Tainted laws are also seen thru as well.  I don't believe perfection is reachable but come on lets not milk that into the opposite direction.  

    "Do you think any differently of women in these careers than you do of the men who work in them? If so, why?"   If someone is messing up no, if they are doing an honest days pay no.   Scale down those professions and view them as a family for a minute.  Their family comes before their job, they should not spread chaos within other people's families to keep their job.  Face it...who keeps their job whether large corp or small family owned business runs appropriately even in hard times because they work together.   Are there only 4-5 careers, no heck horses continue to require horse shoes don't they?  There was a day and age, maybe still going on that people were informing their teens, for instance, that certain careers and interests were all-stupid.   Instead, make the parent or society look better and that needs to stop.  

    "And also, do you think any differently of mothers in these careers than you do of fathers who work in them?"   I believe that mothers are very good in the nurturing department naturally when they have not believed or allowed themselves to be filled with guilt on being a mother - it's a very busy job and surely not as predictable as a day of work outside the home, it's easier at work outside the home based on routine for instance but hardly not a worthless job/role C'mon Cliffy...lol I like that avatar name.  Whether it's her, her husband's addiction to material goods, society etc she should fill her role because children grow into adults who choose a path that includes being parents in many cases. Don't do that to children I say because we all have, call it what you want, certain skills that belong of some good use somewhere in this big family who all live on our planet and some of it does not involve paper money...we all live here together.  There are villages in the middle of nowhere and different cultures...are they poor be careful with that concept applying money to be the only and all-value.  There are mothers and fathers out there who are also trying to dictate their children's career path or turn people into something opposite of their born-with skills...don't do it direction is one thing dictating could be messing with a larger natural scheme of things some don't believe in.  I also believe that fathers have nurturing qualities and they too do not benefit as a father to their children allowing guilt to control them based on money but hey providing is fulfillment = part of their nurture.  Here's a prime example but only one:  life = how many toys one owns that collect dust and maybe so starting with their children.  Keep in mind I'm noting strictly about children and not referring to family rift gone unrepaired by adults who either seek excuse or refuse their roles - lets call that "position" in the family for those in corporate world understand that language.  

    Einstein would not understand one word I just wrote, irony.  Imagine tho if Albert Einstein had applied his intelligence, without nurture to destroy in comparison to Hitler.   When Hitler ruled religion announced, that's it! we are all going to die so go peacefully and wait aka do nothing, irony laced with agenda?  I don't know for sure.

  24. I think sometimes high-powered women develop a 'tude that men don't. They feel they have more to prove and sometimes go overboard on the aggressive go-get-'em attitude and then they are just obnoxious and pushy. But there are also high-powered men who are total arrogant jerks too. Power is one of those two-edged swords. It has a way of corrupting people.

  25. Not much difference except the gender.  Both can almost equally do what the others do.  Both can and both must, strive to achieve their goals and ambitions.  I don't think of them as different, we must treat each other equally and with respect......

  26. They've made a choice and have to live with the good and bad of those choices.  Having a child or not shouldn't matter in how they conduct their business.  Man or woman doesn't matter.  It's not true that women don't have to work any harder than men.

  27. I think women should stay at home and be mothers to many many children.  They should want only to please their husbands and not go after a career at all.  And they CERTAINLY shouldn't go off galavanting in far away countries!

    ...J/K!

  28. I think women are more ambitious and  have a greater will to succeed but are always held back because men walk all over them in the world just because  they have been in control of the market and men are  perceived in television as doctors, lawyers, professors, CEO of major company's  rarely do you see a women in these rules,Thankfully in real life this is not always the case but more than half the time men hold women back which means you girls have to work 2x as hard t be great

  29. In there Way........

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