well, I'm nearly 15 and I have a 3 year old niece. My niece's dad( my brother) Isn't in her life because he doesn't have his life straightened out. My nieces mom and step dad are into hardcore drugs such as methamphetamine. Well my mom and I came up with a plan. My mom and dad said they'd financially support her and pay for court and what not and they would adopt her if I would be the one to technically raise her. Meaning I be the one to discipline her, help her with homework when she's older, instill morals, values, respect, responsibility, and all that. She'd call me mom. My parents said they want it this way because they currently do not have to patience to raise a child. If we decide on this then I will be home-schooled so I can be with her all day. I feel like I have to do this because I don't want her in a foster home (I've experienced it myself) and no other family members are willing to adopt her and she's definitely not in a good situation.
I'd also like to add that I am fully aware of how people will treat me that do not know the situation when we're in public and they hear her call me mommy. People already do that just when I hold her so I'm used to it.
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