What do you think of older woman younger man relationships ?

Question

People seem to accept the older man younger woman thing quite easily but if an older woman is seen kissing a much younger guy she is perceived as some kinda pervert

Answer 1

Their is nothing wrong with it, each to their own and it is our own choice about what to do in our life. I am 20 and my boyfriend is 16. Sure it might sound weird but we are only three years apart. We will also celebrate our 2 year anniversary in October. So if anyone said anything I would say STUFF you!

It is ok if both are serious about what they are doing.

xx

Answer 2

There should not be any problems, but in the current social climate it is for some reason frowned upon. Perhaps there are some undertones of jealousy from the male establishment, but there is no physical reason why not and in real terms a good physical reason why they should.

Anyway

Have fun

Answer 3

There is no problem, even a 25 M can marry a 45 F.

but the only thing important is love Between them.

so no problems.

Answer 4

hi Shiela,

In our country,it is not taken very well, especially if the relationship is leading to marriage, as very soon the woman start looking much older and the man will be at a loss to explain the relationship.

However, if it is just a passing affair, then ofcourse, it is passable.

Answer 5

the older woman younger man becomes less of a problem as people get older, look at jennifer aniston for example. i think up to the age of about 25 it is considered to  be a problem, i think it is because people under 25 are very young and older people may be seen to be taking advantage, im sure it would be the same if the man was 35 and the girl 20 or something along those lines.

Answer 6

It's ok. There is not any problem at all

Answer 7

the reason is that an older woman is 'sexual' only.  that is a kind of taboo.

they dont relate that older woman younger man couple as seeking love or finding love.  an older male younger female is a possibility of children which is acceptable.

in either case, it prolongs the youthful spirit of the older partner in the relationship.  and we all seek to feel youthful at heart always.  perhaps, a fear of dying or a love of life.  I think theyre A OK

Answer 8

When I was about 24 I had a lover who was 40. People thought she was my mum and that was embarrassing. The same goes for older man with younger women. The gap should not be more than 3 years. Keep it simple and you will feel happy.  

Answer 9

Really.?

My wife is nine years older than me and it has never been a problem for us or those who know us..

Some people need to learn to keep their stupidity to them selves..

Answer 10

wot do i know im 13 but that seems to be the case and uno famous people have relationships with different age differences and uno who cares if they say its wrong if u love some1 ull do anything for them so just be happy

Answer 11

well i think this.. GOOD FOR YOU!

They are so jealous. There's nothing wrong with it if you're both happy & adults.

Answer 12

i'm lebanese and i will tell you about the relationships here:

a guy can marry a girl that she's older than him but like 1 year max.

but i think nothing can brake true love.

Answer 13

its OK    Specially older woman  having toy boys    

Answer 14

i think it's okay

I don't see why man can do it and

if a woman does it is wrong

Answer 15

As long as you both love each other, age is not the problem. My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, at the beginning i was really care about what the others think about us. But he always tell me that age is not the problem, don't care about the others. As long as we feel happy and love each other. So you just be happy and enjoy your life.  

Answer 16

Since I come from a combination of cultures where the woman nearly ALWAYS marries a man twice her age...I follow that tradition.

I believe older women in romantic relations with significantly younger  men are fooling themselves. What will they have to offer their man, when no longer a delectable visual?

I have a neighbor who is 48, in love, (MADLY!) with a 26 year old male. She claims he calls her teacher for all she has mentored him about s*x, and is quite certain he'll stick around forever in gratitude.

I asked her what do you think it may be when you are 96 and he's only 52, and she said nothing would have changed because of the power of love.

Right!!!

All of a sudden lover boy will be visiting her at a nursing home as surrogate mommy, (if she is still alive) then going home to a sumptuous 32 year old, or younger...

"What fools these morals be..."

Answer 17

Age is nothing but a number...