What do you think of this plea?

Question

What do you think of this plea?

It's from a Father's Rights web site:

My third and final plea to all. Stop complaining and start performing measurable forms of action. Complaining will get you and your case no where. I have been there and I know it is personally difficult to get over the depression and self obsession of your own case. Get out of the Yahoo groups and start actively helping with the overall movement of changing this current state of madness. Yahoo...hah! It is more like super glue or perhaps voodoo, it might make you a guru but in the end creates nothing more than the taste of stale tofu. The herd mentality, like a group of lemmings, we do nothing more than jump off the cliff together.

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/252276/family_law_reform_leaders_remain_blinded.html?page=3

Answer 1

I'll drink to that.

Answer 2

Feminism IS a hate group.

It IS against men's rights.

It does NOT support equality, that is a blatant lie.

Feminism IS sexist against men.

Laws like VAWA have not done a single thing for men. Saying it supports men is another blatant LIE.

Feminists are hypocrites and I have NO sympathy for them at all and I never will.

What do I think of the plea: It's a nice thought but how? You need money to do that and feminism has raped the wallets of men in America. At least those who have been personally affected. They don't have the time nor money to fight a system that is biased against them in the first place. As someone else stated these articles, posts are a way to express themselves. To let off some steam. This obviously

is a sign that he has reached a new level of understanding within himself. Pushing others to do what he proposes could have a very negative and disastrous result.

Answer 3

Sounds like a smart guy-it's one thing to vent but after a while you need to do something with that anger or you just end up-venting and raging and going around in circles. Feminists got off their you-know-whats and saw that if no one was going to take them seriously or do anything about what they cared about-they'd do it themselves.

Feminists funded; created; and staffed domestic violence centers; rape crisis lines; and volunteered to worked on legislation; but what are anti-feminists doing? Feminists didn't expect others to do a thing-they did it themselves. Why aren't these guys doing it too? They act like if people don't agree with them or support them-they have to give up. Hey-if you really believe in your cause-why are you giving up so easily?

US feminists spent 70 years working on the right to vote; and we still don't have the ERA and that's been decades in the making as well. Feminists have been spit on-thrown in jail-threatened physically-and they kept going. I'm hearing a lot of excuses from these groups-and not a lot of much else.

Answer 4

You don't believe men should have equal rights?

This is what happens when do something about battered husbands: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qodygTkTU... . Feminists fight against men getting equal rights.

This is what happens when men do something about trying to get equal education for boys: http://feministing.com/archives/009244.h... The Association of University Women(figures--sexist, in itself) and feminists spend time and money to fight against men having equal rights.

Why is it okay to be sexist against men?

Answer 5

These types of sites are therapy for men. Instead of paying thousands of dollars that most don't have  for head doctors(it goes to lawyers, courts, exes, and the kids) these men have a place to go and complain and compare notes. Compare it to an online hen party where wives not only complain about husbands, but share recipes, etc. Everytime I hear a woman complain about these evil, destructive father's groups I just think of all the castrative feminists in the world, past and present, and think to myself, Karma knows no gender.

This guy's plea is appropriate, for him and only for him. He has apparently reached a mental state that allows him to stow his anger. If he is successful in pushing others out of the "nest", the results could very well be destructive. They need to learn to control their anger before facing the public in demonstrations or public speaking. Some may never be ready, having been mentally and fiscally raped by someone they thought loved them.

EDIT: Jo, you don't seem to get it. First off, much of feminism IS a hate group, plain and simple. What you also don't get is that hate is an honest human emotion. Should a woman not hate her rapist? Should a father not hate the wife and judge who stole his children and his life? Just as we give a woman who is raped time to recover, and don't tell me she's not encouraged to hate the rapist, we also have to give a father time to heal his wounds. Venting at those who have harmed him is normal and restorative. You hate these father's rights groups? I hate the haters of FR groups.

Answer 6

Just losers talking from their little heads in a big head world.