Before I begin, I'd like to state that this is based of the story of one of my great friends. The second paragraph is directly from her. I hope you enjoy this.
“Claire, you’re so fat that when you tipped over that boat the whales started singing ‘We are family!’†I would hear those cruel taunts every day in my teenage years, and at that one day, I just couldn’t take it. I started eating less and less, and soon enough I was 75 pounds, while before I was 120. I wouldn’t tell anyone about my struggles except for my best friend, Brianna. Not even my parents knew. It was hard, and it was a daily battle- me against the weight.
After a while starving myself felt good. I liked the feeling of being hungry because I was in control of my body, the few things I could control then....but you know anorexia became a part of my life like it was a religion I lived by and when someone made a comment about some celebrity looking anorexic I would look at them like they said it was about me because I didn’t want anyone to drag down my freedom and make my mind remind me that what I was doing was wrong. Because even thought I knew it was wrong, it felt good and most importantly I was in control. It was difficult hiding it when I was at school because my friends would ask why I wasn’t eating and why I was so thin, I learned to block it out and lie to them. I became a very good liar. My dad is in Iraq and my mom goes on endless buisness trips so it was really easy at home because no one was ever there. Once in a while I would have to have my friends come over and maul my kitchen for food so it looked like I ate while she was gone. My mom never really sat down and ate a meal with me either, always on buisness dinners and stuff. But during the time, I soon realized how much of a monster I am. Lying to my friends and family, not caring about other people’s feeling just so I could feel more confident and be happy with myself. And for a while I was confident......than that confidence decreased because all these rumors about me being anorexic spread around and it was true. I saw people react to what they've heard about me and then they opened my eyes more. I lost many friends, and gained a few. I think the most emotional time for me is when my parents and friends found out. There was too much drama I couldn’t escape. Over all, I would say being anorexic wasn’t worth the time, the lies, the friends I lost, the trust I lost, the money, and the sadness it put my parents through.
Every time I would look in the mirror I would see this giant monster, and I would cry myself to sleep sometimes.
“Claire, you’re losing a lot of weight. Are you okay?†my mom would ask me. My rips and back bones were showing through.
“Yeah, mom.†I would tell her.
Then one day, I looked in the mirror, and instead of seeing a big, fat monster, I saw a skinny, small monster. And at that point I knew that I would have to start eating normal again.
So the next morning, instead of eating 2 spoonfuls of cereal, I ate a whole waffle. But immediately after I ate it, I knew something was wrong. My stomach was hurting.
Five minutes later, I threw up. I guessed at the time my stomach couldn’t handle it. But this continued forever, until I told my mom about my struggles. Instead of being mad, she was supportive.
“I tried to eat, I really tried!†I would wail, and she would pat my back.
Soon she took me to the hospital.
“I’m sorry, Claire. Your organs are damaged and you need a new stomach.â€Â
August 1st, 2008.
That was my expiration date if I didn’t get a donor. I had breakdowns constantly. I wanted hope, not sympathy.
I never got a donor, but I got a robotic stomach. Soon enough I learned that my new robot stomach was failing. But so far I was doing better.
One day I tried out for the best cheerleading squad in the state. And you know what they said?
“You have great potential, but you’d be a bad influence to other girls.â€Â
Honestly, what has the society come to at this day? Couldn’t they see that I was trying my best? I felt like an outsider.
So never, ever go anorexic. It’s horrible, and can ruin your life forever.
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