What do you think...???

Question

what is your oppinion: having a baby at 18, althought this pregnancy might not be planned the people having love each other alot and want to spend the rest of their life together. they would be scared but a baby would make them happy.

i wondered what your views are on having a baby at 18. is it the right age? or is it too young?

in my opinion it is quite young but as long as the people love each other and the baby would be born into a loving home thats all that matters.

i dont know about all of you, but i am completly against abortions, i just couldnt bring myself to do that, however, i would understand if someone had one because of a good reason. what do you think?

also what do you think is the right age to have a baby?

thanks for answering :)

Answer 1

No Way. Live your life and do some growing up before you have a baby at 18. Even though you think you are a grown up there are still so many things you have to learn. I was with someone I was going to spend the rest of my life with at 18. then at 19 I wised up and realized we just weren't compatible. Thank God we didn't have kids yet. I think 21 and older for having a planned baby.

If you are already pregnant then I wish you the best of Luck. And don't forget that relationships are a lot of work. It isn't always fun.

Answer 2

I agree with God..

The Bible says that it's wrong to have s*x before you're married. So age doesn't matter to God, just as long as they're married it's fine.

(If they love each other enough, they'll get married)

God also says it's wrong to kill.

God LOVES us more than anything so when he says not to do something, he's like a parent telling their kid to not touch a hot stove. If we touch it, it hurts our relationship because I just disobeyed, but it hurts me the most because I just got burned!  

Answer 3

im totally against abortions to no matter what the reason is

Answer 4

I had my son at 18 & do not regret it at all.  I ahve financially provided for him myself.  There is no age in which makes someone a good parent, there are ppl in 30s who are awful parents.  I do not believe in the bull about no s*x b4 marriage, its 21st century, most marriages end in divorce & if God loves us all then he's not gonna care that we'r not married b4 bringing another life into the world.  We do not love our children any less cos we are not married.  I agree with you as long as your baby is born into a loving home that is all that matters! xx

Answer 5

My girlfriend had our first when she was 18 don't worry about it as long as your guy sticks around you should be ok!!! I'd say the normal age to have a kid is 20+ but who am I to tell you just do what's right!!!

Answer 6

I think it is totally down to the parents. I have friends who were parents at 18 and have raised their children fantastically. They're great parents and have proved everyone that told them they couldn't do it wrong. I think as long as the parents are willing to show the baby love and can support it and understand the responsibility of having a baby then there is no problem. I personally couldn't go theough with an abortion but I respect the right for women to choose for themselves. I think there is no set age for having children, it is completely down to the parents.  

Answer 7

its fine as long as both the mother and father are committed  to bringing up the baby together, and as long as they are not affected financially or educationally. and usually i think about 21+ is a good age but it all depends

where theres love, theres uncontrollable lust 2, so things happen but life still goes on!