What do you think will happen to my boyfriend?

Question

He's 19 and he's been on probation for a while. He crashed a car and didn't report the accident, plus he was drunk, and got in trouble for robbery too. He went to jail for a few months (that was last summer).

He did good for 5 months after he got out but in may he went back to jail because some stupid asses called the cops on him for things he didn't do, but when he was in there they found THC in his system so he stayed for a few days. Then the night he got out he was arrested for drinking. That was the beginning of June.

A week ago he got arrested again because his friends pinned their **** on him. There were prescription pills in the car he was in and he doesn't even know what they were but everyone signed statements saying they were his. What do you think will happen to him now? Do you think he's gonna do some time for s******g up so much?

Answer 1

5-10 yrs in prison.He'll serve around 18 months and be on parole for the rest of the sentence.

Not the end of the road though.

I've seen many young men get out and make a go of it

and are productive members of society

The company he keeps has to change though for success.

Answer 2

The question you should be asking is what will happen to me?

Here are some possible scenarios.

1. You and your drunk boyfriend are in a crash where he is drinking and driving.  He goes to the hospital and then jail. You go to the morgue and then the cemetary.

2. You and him get pulled over while you are driving. He stashes drugs in the car. They are found and he decides he doesn't want to go to jail for it. You go to jail because you are in control of the car, he goes and hooks up with another chick.

3. He gets arrested and you post his bond. He skips bail and you are out several thousand dollars.

4.  He ticks off the wrong people and they decide to "get you" as a way of getting back at him.

5. He gets you pregnant and leaves you with a kid to raise alone.

Now I just laid out five different yet possible scenarios that could happen during your relationship with him. And even though they are different, they have one thing in common. You lose. And you lose big time. It takes only one time to live a life full of regret. Are you really ready to take on that burden so young in your life? I hope not.

Answer 3

with past records of criminal charges most llikely he will have some jail time

Answer 4

I think he probably will go to jail. With a history like his, nobody is likely to buy the friends excuse, whether it's true or not. If he really wants to get his act together after his next stint in jail, he needs to avoid the bad influences in his life (i.e. his druggie friends).

Answer 5

Now, why exactly are you with this guy?  It sounds to me like he doesn't exactly make good decisions.  And his choice of friends leaves a lot to be desired.

As for what will happen to him...he'll continue to do stupid things and hang out with other troublemakers, he'll bounce in and out of jail a few times, and eventually he'll do something really stupid like kill someone in a liquor store robbery or drug deal or drunk driving accident...and then he'll get put away for a long time.

Are you sure you want to hang around for that?

Extra piece of free advice...whatever you do, DON'T get pregnant from him.

Answer 6

I think you should get a new boyfriend. He probably will too. lol

Answer 7

hes definately gonna face jail, whether convicted of robbery or not, because of the pills and the countless mistakes in the last year or so, if he is LUCKY he will see probation, but im guessing, a year or less in jail...

sucks but you gotta live with your mistakes

Answer 8

get yourself a new dude before long you may be following him down the same dead end road.

Answer 9

Once is a coincidence, twice is a conspiracy,

get shy of this guy, he's going to ruin your life.

Answer 10

I saw a lot of guys like your bf in my time as a cop. The only way he is going to get out of this is to clean up his act and avoid the "friends" that he hangs out with. He will do some time. Maybe a couple of days. And get more probation time. Sometimes it takes a hard fall before they wise up. He may keep going the way he is until he does some hard time. Sorry.

Answer 11

He's going to do time, but probably not much.  Drog offenders rarely do much time.  I'm talking less than 5 years.  In penitentiary terms, facing five years he will still have McDonalds in his guts.  A five year bit is nothing.

On the other hand, if he doesn't have the sense to protect himself from himself, what future do you hope to have with him?  Not saying for you bail right now.  But, you do need to put some serious questions to him, and lay down the law.  From here out, it is your way or the highway, or should be.  If he doesn't want to reform, and you stay, life will not be pleasant.  Sorry for the honesty.  Well...not for the honesty, but the harshness of it.

Final point of fact: several states have minimum time laws.  If he is sentence to 5-10, he will do five before he gets out.  Check your state.