What do you think would happen?

Question

So, I know you can't like everyone and when you think about we all dish it out as bad as each other. Although we are all pretty nice people. So, I was thinking, I shouldn’t care about the people who don't like me for me, if they can't handle my happiness then get over it, I'm not going to become an emo just for them. So would they take this wrong way if I was to be friendly with them like say hi to them in the morning or if we just pass, would I just get weird looks or would it make people see the really me? To get it straight I'm not a b word (you know which one) I just feel so horrid when people have to make weird looks at me, well I can handle the weird looks coz we all they just want to join on the fun, and find it highly amusing (apparently I am admired for acting like myself) But when some has to give that word, that one word that makes you feel horrible and crushes you, you have to dish back the goods, suppose I can handle my own medicine, just making sure they can handle there’s. But this may make sound like a not so nice word, trust me I am not, I normally take things easy and the chick who dances in the rain and cracks a joke gets along with people acts like a fool even when the most perfect guy is starring right at you (he‘s often smiling though). But some people, I don‘t know (I might just be over thinking or getting a paranoid over this), suppose I treat every one like my best friend. But if was to just stop dishing back the insults and said hi to them in a nice way, would I be liked for it or just get those weird looks?

I might just be thinking all of this, and non of may be real. But I don’t like me when I give those looks and in that tense moment, I normally stick up for the lil guy who is getting those looks!

Answer 1

just because you don't like somebody or they don't like you doesn't mean you can't be courteous to them and get along with them. i find that a friendly smile and "good morning" is helpful.

Answer 2

I see a lot of writing.  But I don't see nothing that makes a lot of since.

b word

coz

lil

They have a way to correct your spelling on this site.  If you can't spell.  So why not use it.

Answer 3

I think regardless of what you really think about these people you need to take the high road, and just be nice, for nice sake.  You can say similar comments back, or give those weird looks back, but that only lowers you down to their level.  And obviously, you do not see that as a place you want to be.  

And if anything, just keep your distance from these people.  They would be considered negative in relation to you, and you will get more joy out of being around happy considerate people that inspire you.

Thanks for reading!

Answer 4

I need to add you to my friends list.

Answer 5

Well, people are different. Some may be a little mature and see "Oh look, she's being the bigger person by not holding a grudge against me and my sh*t. It wouldn't hurt to wave back, I guess" while others will completely not understand your goal, think you're mocking them, and give you weird looks. I think it's still a good idea to just politely say hello anyway.