What do you think?What should I do

Question

My cousin's father is such an argh! He is an ...argh!Idiot!He doesn't even know what I am writing here ...he thinks he owns everything here, wanna be the boss, don't respect my grand mother, my cousin and my mother, he is trying to do it to me now, he says things to people about my family , he is gross to my aunt and everything ...what should I do?And no is not really my parent, not even if I wanted.I respect him because he is older then me, but if he were not...I don't know.He is 55 years old and sometimes act just like a 5 years old kid I don't know what to do...He doesn't work and is always in home, or almost when he is not with his friends or else , I don't wanna know what he does when he is out.I don't wanna disrespect nobody but I wanna finish it, cause my aunt(the other one who is married with him doesn't seem to note the things he does.What would you do in my situation?

Answer 1

Okay, if he's not acting like the grown up then you should act extremely mature around him.  Act like you were an adult.  If he acts stupid towards you stare at him coldly and give him a look like, "your acting like a total fool and I can see right through you."  If he starts disrespecting you--think before you speak.  I mean like---you should say a couple of words that will hit him hard.  Say something short, but extremely meaningful and full of dept. If you start shouting no one will listen, but if you stay cool and say something meaningfull in a calm tone people will listen.  Always act cool and cordinated.  Also, don't go picking fights, remember be calm about it.

Answer 2

ok whats with the "he doesnt even no what im writeing here" weres here? and u should just confront him about it....and to save u tme just call him ur uncle. ps how old r u?

Answer 3

Honestly ... can't really tell what your "situation" is.  You weren't very clear in your question, sorry.